Plz give advice.....

1)u r working lady or not?

2)is ur husband is a employ?

plz clear these questions

I m not working i m graduate +b.ed...

my husband is govt employ

Dear Querist

as per your information the decision is yours, think about yourself and consult with the elders & relatives regarding this. amicably settlement will be better

Dear querist,

Best option is to amicable settlement and file Mutual consent divorce. As far as your daughter is concerned, i am surprised to read that how can a mother even think to give her daughter. A mother is a natural care taker of a baby whether its a boy or a gal. You should listen to your soul and dont spoil your daughter's future as mother can better take care of a child than father.. A father can't give emotional support to a child. You are qualified enough and better take care of your child than your so called ex husband and give emotional and financial security to your daughter. File MCD and take custody of your daughter.

Adv. Neha

As you say u have issues started from small matters and they turn in to big fight. Fight usually happen when both stand equal and argue. before you fight or take a decision on seperation think once what is the use in it. it is not true that things happen from one side.

graduated people filled with heavy ego will not help any one. my advice to you is leave your Ego and go to him with love. dont live for ur self live for your daughter. make her life good atlest. dont spoil it. you are a mother now not wife. if you dint have daughter then no worries. you had many good times cant it be helpful to come over one bad time.

Think over & over rest its ur wish.

@i am nobody  Be a mother not a selfish lady. You seem to be a shame on the name of mother. If your marriage is broken down and at present you are having a custody of a child. You are thinking to throw a child to your husband and move ahead with your life like a free bird. Such a shame on you. How a mother can even think of? if your marital relation is dead, then file a MCD(Mutual Consent Divorce) and take custody of a child and make an amicable settlement deed with husband to file a MCD. A mother is a natural caretaker of a child, she can better take care of a child as compare to father. You should not even think to throw away your own child to your husband who might hv become a stranger to your child.

MCD will be better option for dead marriages as it will take 6 months as compare to contested divorce of 5-10 years. nobody can force a husband/wife to have a conjugal with spouse. if the relation is dead, its always better to put an end to this dead relation.