Hi
I am suffering in marriage and it seems to be a fraud, arranged Hindu marriage.
It seems to be a very big mistake of my life.
We are not compatible to each other and have lot of understanding and mental differences.
Our marriage is going to finish one year and we hardly lived together for 3-4 months and then separated.
Reasons behind suffering are:
àLack of Physical Intimacy: YES
àLack of Adjustments: YES
àUnreasonable Expectations: YES
àOur way of thinking is different.
àAnd we are mutually incompatible to each other.
àWe are not able to understand each other.
àWe are not able to tell our feelings each other.
à Expectations are very high from husband. And such expectations are not met due to practical aspects/non willingness and lake of love and as such the same results in repeated heated arguments between us.
à
àNo respect is given to groom and his family.
àWe don’t feel Love to each other as well as in relationship
àWithin 8 months the marriage broke down and we started living separately. So purpose of marriage doesn’t seem to be fulfilled.
Please give me advice either we should go for marriage annulment or mutual consonant divorce, what is the difference between two and what is the easy procedure
1) What will be total expenditure in divorce process and what documents will be required.
2) We don’t have marriage certificate but have proof of marriage like (Invitation card, Photos), will these only work or I need to apply for registration only for divorce.
3) Marriage is solemnized at Jaipur and we last lived together at
a. Where we should file the case?
b. We don’t want to make this process tough and difficult, please give precautions before filing the case.
c. We don’t have child from marriage
d. Wife is working with good salary. So no issues are there.
e. 2 months are left in completion of full year of marriage.