Dear Experts,
I came to know that some one visiting my house in night in my absence when I used to remain on tour for 20-25 days in a month. My maid and neighbours affirmed that. Then I visited my home and after stay there for 3-4 days, I pretended that I am leaving for tour and stayed in hotel where I called my family members from other city. In night around 9, I talked my wife on phone and pretended as if I reached to destination. She relaxed and called that fellow (to whome I never met but who joined my company 4 months back in another department and much junior to me) around 11PM and we entered the house with duplicate keys around 1AM and found them in compromising position. My maid, my parents and my cousin brother witnessed that. I called my inlaws and they took her home after two days.
I filed divorce which is still pending on ground of adultery and also filed 497 case against that boy. The boy did not utter single word in accussed statement and only said that photos might have been taken at swimming pool and submitted the certified copy of the divorce case filed by me in 2011 (Which did not pursue by me after compromise take place in 2011 itself for kid sake) during defense. We submitted 4 witness statement including me and maid. Also photos and video in pendrive where they admitting the guilt. During cross question also no deviation taken place in statements of all witness.
Now in argument stage the advocate of boy has alleged that since I have created an enviornment for the adultery for wife and accused, I have connvined to that and no remedy to me on this ground. He said that for obtaining divorce, I indeed allowed committing adultery and then filed divorce.
My advocate suggested that since this question was never raised during trial this has no relevance. But I am a bit scared as my lot of cases are depending on this only.
Thus please advise that:-
1. Whether Connivance as alleged against me is admissable looking into the facts mentioned above.
2. I was reading a english case (but I am not sure of authenticity thereof) where it was written that for connivance for obtaining proof can't be treated as connivance.
3. Can you learned people provide any case law of similar type which I can use and produce before judgement.
4. Whether my advocate is correct in saying that connivance ground can't be taken when it is not raised during whole proceeding.
Your kind advise is very important for me as if I loose this case, I may lose custody case and divorce case. Moreover domestic violence case and 125 case of my wife will become strong in that case.
Please reply at earliest.