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Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

what to do when wife leave home in one month after marriage

hello sir I got married on 22 February 2018 I found out girl buy a newspaper they are from Bareilly and I belong from Kanpur and I choose a poor family girl for give her a better future my father in law is a farmer and live in a small house detail everything clear to their family that we are middle class family we just need girl who can adjust with us we don't want any dahej. everything will be OK and all arrangements done by mine father in law's friend. he is working for railway a good class officer his age is 60 years old after marriage everything is fine at our first night the girls told me that she lives in her father's friend house from last 5 years before marriage and he always fulfill her requirements so I need to do to I was agree on that after that girl told me that she don't want any physical relationship with me at least for one year we first need to understand each other I agree on that but after that be done physical relationship with each other at first night at next day morning I was shocked when she talks with her uncle on call she said to him how many times I did s*x with her I just start scrolling her on it . she said it's nothing wrong to tell him becose he like her father. we keep start fighting on this every night after marriage on 28 February from his home first time and she had to return on 18th March but unfortunately after holi I get information that she plan to go his uncle house for 18 days so I just go and call her on 4th March after that everything is ok she is not come with her mobile so I give my mobile to her for talking with her parents but she never talk with her parents she always use my phone to talk with his uncle after that she said to him she can't make physical relationship with me because her body is not suitable for physical relationship if she do this she will he is so is uncle chat come back she ask me for go back I ask for how many days you wanna go she said for 2 months she wanna go I said I can't allow this because after marriage you just stayed only 20 days and you wanna go there for 2 month if you wanna go for one week I can allow you she said to her uncle on phone please don't force me for come back now I am not sure I am getting married and it's my house if you force me I will commit suicide then her uncle cut the phone and said to his sister my wife don't want any relationship with me so now you guys never try to contact him I never ask any money in this period she was pregnant after that she said to me she don't wanna child because because of that she is not looking good so she don't want my child I respect her order and she take a abortion pill after that on 25th March his uncle again call and said that you just come here and tell two people that your husband and his family always beating you and harassing you rest he will be handle and plan something buy this in reality sweet don't want to go but his uncle send his younger sister at my house and tell me that she wanna come just for travelling purpose so I took her sister home station to My Home ceiling in my home for 3 days from 21 to 23 123 secret drama and keep fight with me and my family members after that I left house because of drama and fighting you keep call me and messaging me please come back please come back she don't want to left me I came back on next day when I come back I just saw that my wife and her sister leave my home and went to her parents on my mother said that she is good she wanna go for 4 days said ok my mother's give her 5000 rupees and Jewellery of 50 grams grams when she go Sikkim informing my mum WhatsApp status in which season she arrived when she arrived her house she also tell that she is fine she arrived well at her house after next day my mum want to talk with her but her all mobiles are switch off I tried 3 days continuously but her mobile switch off continuously I just worried so I called her father I am in my father in law at night is child abusing me he said to me I am hurting my wife for physical relationship everyday he said to me I take drugs or physical relationship its all wrong after that I called that uncle he said I tell guys that girl for physical relationship I said why I need to terrorize her she is my wife he said she don't want to come back there I was keep begging keep crying in front of them for 10 days but her parents keep abusing me his parents I'm in his father told me one day send your mum at his house when she gives him s*xual pleasure then he will send my wife back at this word I I stop calling them on 30 March after not any conversation for 5 days I get a call from my wife wife 4th April she is talk with my mum she said she wanna come at my house but in her house peoples are not allowed to send her alone so I had to go who took her back my mum said you going to your house without telling us anything and you keep doing this drama if you want to solve it you have to come to my house with your parents and members and solve the misunderstanding she denied she said she don't wanna come your son not come to take her back on this world my mum gone mad and she said then don't need to come because you just insult your husband continuously and still you said you don't wanna come on this thing I tried to call her she talked with me first time after leaving my home she started using my family members to me she said your parents is not my parents I said you have misunderstanding we have to solve it she said if your parents is my parents then they need to transfer their property to her name and they have to say sorry to her and she also said she wanna come back only one condition if I go and took her back no tell me what should I do she she always tell what we do every night to her uncle I can go there but I just don't want to go there because her father abuse me a lot and too many times and he also said he will kill me so I just don't want to go there when I talk with her uncle he said you have to come on any condition if you want our relationship keep running good if you don't come they will take legal way for pulling me to their City now help me what should I do it's only approx 2 months of our marriage and girl live in my house only 24 days


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Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

some correction in question ask me to go to home for 2 months I deny I said I can allow only for one week call her uncle and tell him my husband can't live without me he can't leave me for 2 months so please don't force me or come back if you force me or come back she will commit suicide then her uncle call to her small sister well said that Monica(my wife) don't wanna any relationship with him so now you and your family members not try to contact him you will either try for any money

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

many time she also force me for gift her costly mobile approx 70000 rupees and quantity of foreign tour

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

I read full story because I don't want to create any confusion Sir, I just want to know how can I get my wife back

Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate)     11 April 2018

To get back your wife you can only make her to agree to live with you . With dignity bring her back to the matrimonial home. Just recently the Supreme Court of India categorically stated wife is not chattel who can be forcibly brought or tied by the husband.

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

Sir she want to come back but she said only if I come to her house for took her back , how I can go there become his father already give me warning if I come he will kill me . I have her all call recoding I never did anything wrong with her

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

Main problem is her uncle , she did as her uncle told her

Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate)     11 April 2018

Go with respectable people of your family and society and bring her back with due respect and dignity. No one will harm you if you go with peaceful mission to setlle the matrimonial dispute and if you are making just evidence for future case to be filled to dissolve the marriage than forget if any positive response you'll get from the other party.

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

Ok sir I will go asap

Kumar Doab (FIN)     11 April 2018

If your souse is willing to come back with you then she will.

Involve the elders of family, neutral well wishers, mediators, persons of repute, Security Guards, etc  …………

They can be your protection as well..

Kumar Doab (FIN)     11 April 2018

If you are apprehensive let your own very able LOCAL senior counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family matters and having successful track record…. and worth his/her salt.. listen to recordings and understand inputs from you in person and provide you with considered opinion….

If you are unable to handle on your own your counsel can advise you the reunion with help of court/state.

Rahul Katiyar   11 April 2018

more suggestion also welcome

Rahul Katiyar   15 April 2018

Sir according your suggestion I go to her house and talk with her. but she did misbehaving and she wants To be separate from my parents but I can't leave my parents how can she say she wanna live separate even she just stay 20 days after marriage it's only 2 months how can I give her divorce?

Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate)     15 April 2018

No you can not get divorce on the ground you have now. You'll be wasting time and money on lawyers by going to court for divorce proceedings nothing more you will get.

Rahul Katiyar   15 April 2018

Sir she abuse me . she also said I'm taking drugs for make relationship. it's false after that she said she will make relationship once in a week. she said my job is useless. she said it's can't beard her expenses. she abuse my family members too. she said if your parents love me then they should need to transfer all property to her name. is it not enough ground for divorce?

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