Wife live seperated

file for divorce on the basis of separation. you can take mutual consent divorce, since both of you do not want to live together.

base of separation? how it can help? at least 07 months of my marriege she separeted from last 02 months. i am leaving room because of her misbehaviour and short temper.

Ask her what she wants, if she wants to live separately, then take a rented home near you parents and stay with her, once in a day  you can come and take care of your parents, for small issues dont go for divorce, whatever may be the case think for a alternate solution dont go for divorce, divorce should be your last step but not the first step, also there are marriage counselors who can give expert advice for such ego problems, take care of your parents and also you wife, both should be given equal priority, be an all rounder. All the best.

thank u sir, appreciate your valuable advise.

but she want only me live with her not my parents, in rented room, three time she taken kerosin (rockel) which feared me so i leave the room and ask her to stay with me in my town. she reject the proposal. no one can caretaker of my family so i tell her to leave the job. she refuse.

Why cant you take your family to the town she lives, if you have a own house in your hometown give it for rent and bring your family to the place your wife lives , take another house for rent and keep your parents there and arrange for a house keeper / cook for taking care of your parents.

sir, i am not not landlord party, belong to simple middleclass family and earn rs. 10000/- pm salary and satisfied withe family in hometown. my old aged parents not leave the town because of their illness.

why am i compromise for her wishes? if she want to continue to marriege life then she compromise for her job.

house keeper or cook is not take placed of me.

Marriage is all about giving , a simple fact of marriage is that more you give , the more you receive. 

Talk with the girls parents and try to reach an alternative solution. 

If you think for divorce the expenses incurred is also more, I am not trying to frighten you I am telling only the facts, you have to pay for lawyer, travelling expenses, loss  of pay due to leave taken due to court attending,you have to pay your wife for monthly expenses and all above this mental tension and agony, loss of time , and your parents medical expenses, your future of getting married.

Even after divorce you have to pay your wife as ordered by court. 

thnx a lot....

now i want to step by step information about how to take divorce? which evidence and formalities can be fulfilled to ge divorce soon?

First you have to tell details about you before marriage and after marriage, all the details without leaving any information, then only lawyers can help you on how to proceed.