Wife's problematic attitude

Sir,

First of all, make your stand clear.  Whether you want to lead a marital life with your wife? If YES, then you can file a petition before the Family Court for RCR.  This case will help you by calling your wife to live with you and your family.  

Sir,

First of all, make your stand clear.  Whether you want to lead a marital life with your wife? If YES, then you can file a petition before the Family Court for RCR.  This case will help you by calling your wife to live with you and your family.  

asking witten statements from wife = cruelty. Dont do it.

try to change her erratic behaviour.

in the light of gender biased laws & the future of ur daughter, i advise u to reconcile

she does not go with u to ur parents  +u both live seperate = marriage intact

divorce happens +  u both are seperate.= marriage gone

though both situations are problematic and bad and ur parents need u the most

if possible try best to save ur marriage for the sake of ur child and resolve matters through counselling and communication..

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Support your parents !!

parents are jewel of any individuals life therefore a wife who shows such a negative attitude must be dealt with seriously.A women who is unable to tolerate the presence of your beloved Mom and Dad in house should herself be expelled from house.It is better to part ways from her............

I am no lawyer but if you are already at this stage start recording

what evidence is admissible? Can you invest 10 20 K and get mini cameras, mp3 recorders. Record her saying she will kill your daughter. Next file a criminal complaint for endangering your daughters life.

Keep records

Keep CDs

Keep a copy of your CD with your lawyer

contact a lawyer

gather evidence

in this case it is better if you go to your parents place without her. If she comes and puts some 498 against them you are better without her.

If she does not want to go give her some space. No need to jump the gun and get into legal overdrive as it will only complicate matters for you and bring on additional tensions. Try and strike the balance here you come and meet your family often and also stay with your parents at their place and spend ample time with them. It is not that difficult a thing to do. Remember it takes two to tango. Your parents must have also done something to make her feel this way about them. Blaming her mother is the easiest escape strategy that most men apply. Do you get influenced by your mother too? If so then what is wrong in her getting influenced by her's then? Do not put the blame of things going wrong between you or your thinking on someone else. No parent teaches their child to be nasty so get these thoughts ut of your head. You have a daughter too and if tomorrow someone says the same about her I am sure you would not like it. SO act mature and try give space to your wife and trust me it will only make her feel that you do understand her well. With time she too would adjust to the idea of you dividing the time between her and your parents and she might agree to come and stay with you. Nothing to worry. Just concentrate on your family life and do not make any hasty decisions that would make you regret later. 

Originally posted by : ish*ta
	No parent teaches their child to be nasty so get these thoughts ut of your head.

You don't know anything I bet. Its better you don't comment at all Ms.Copywriter

Let your mother file DV on your wife and also maintenance case on you as they come under senior citizens. 

Dont ever bend to a greedy wife, you are unfortunate that you are married to such a woman. If you are scared of false cases or harassment from your wife then your life will be miserable. You will be missing the end days of your parents and as a son its your duty to take care of them in every possible way. Make your stand clear to her and let her do whatever she wants to do. She will be spoiling her life too and at some point she will realize her mistake.

A moral less creature will never change, it doesnt matter whether it is 10yr old marriage or 1yr old marriage.