My husband is in Army and he now drinking of lot of alcohol. Since 5-6 years he is driniking a lot. He stay at his workplace but while returning back or going back to service he stay in hotel but drinks a lot. Lost his phone 2-3 times, make lot of hotel bills. His parents are good and feel ashamed. I am her wife but suffer a lot as his behaviour has changes, arrogant, he get irritatted to small things. I dont earn anything right now and depnd on him. He dont do any violance but overall this making our marraige suffer. Any way i can give him notice or warn or do some agreemnt so that he will well behave or atleast fear that he may loose me. Last thing if i may leave or put case he may be leave job, or suicide or become pycho as he is too much addicted to alcohol. Pls suggest me way forward