I had a short marriage and within 4 months of marriage my wife left me due to a small fight. This was later followed by a 498A and now we have arrived at a settlement that we would apply for a MC divorce and they would withdraw there 498A Quashing thru HC.
The motive that I had in life when came into these litigations to defend has vanished as the cases have been settled but now I feel that no one gained anything and resulted in spoiling of life and time for both of us. Though it is a zero alimony settlement. Inspite of the fact that all the legal issues are getting resolved am getting into depression over the fact that I will be a Divorcee in some time. I dont know how will I start my life again and would I be able to as I have lost the faith in the institution of marriage.
I dont say that I would have not been wrong but I tried my best to resolve the issues initially but things did not work. As of now though I am out of this issue but feel I am getting into depressionover the fact that I am heading nowwhere in my life inspite of being professionally successfull. As monetary and economic success dont fill the vacum that is being created in your social life.
I dont know why did it happen with me and am doing a self introspection of what wrong I did in the 4 mths of marriage could there be a second chance given to me and is that a enough time to form a decision about anyone but there is no choice now.
The day when I sign my MC divorce petition would be the saddest day of my life but time is the best healer so may be time changes my life.
