hi,
This is Guru. I have one elder brother and got married.Our mother is staying with us.
Our native is in south tamil nadu.My father worked as sales executive and he is a drunkard.From 2000 to 2006 he harassed by drinking daily and scolding me,my brother and mother in vulgar words.We were helpless that time and we left the home and came to chennai without knowing him.We both got a job in chennai and settled down well.For nearly 6 years he was not aware that where we were.Suddenly my father got ill and hospitalized.I went to native on humanity ground and spent nearly 40000Rs and treated him for his disease and also for addiction and brought him to chennai to stay with us in our home.But he started quarreling with my mother.We adjusted for few months and after that we asked him to go to native and we will send him money for his maintenance. We gave him Rs.10000 for check up in hospital and for searching a house.But he spent all amounts for alcohol and again came home after few days.Without knowing this we gave him another 4000rs and he left for native again.This time from our relative in native we gt a info that he is drinking again.When he called us again for money, we told him we wont give money hereafter and if he comes to native we will hand over him to police.For nearly 1 year he didnt call us or come to our house.But we came to know that he stayed with her mom and drunken all these days.Again he came to chennai to our house in a pathetic condition.So again we accepted him and this time we found a mansion near our house and made him to stay there.We spent nearly 8000rs every month for his accommodation,food and medical expenses.After 6 months he told us he want to work again.So my brother gave him rs4000 for purchasing shoes and dresses.He drank for the full amount and scodled all the people in the mansion and he spoilt our reputation.This time we got annoyed and put him in rehabiliation center.In the meantime my brother got married.We didnt invite my father.He stayed in rehabiliation center for 2 months and the center people told that he is having TB ans cant allow to stay him there anymore.So we shifted him to old age home.Now we are paying 3500rs for the old age home.But he is demanding to move him to a good place and provide him with good food.This time we didnt do it.Then he sent some vulgar letters to our relatives to blackmail us.Now he sending a letter to me and my brother and saying us that he is gonna file a complaint against me,my brother and mother.
1)he is drunkard
2)He used to peep other house windows
3)His thoughts are not good about ladies
4)Literally pervert
Now his friends are helping him to file a case against us.His age is 60.Kindly suggest us some ideas to deal with him.
