i want to get married with my girlfriend. her parents are against the marriage. we have decided to go ahead and get married. pls advice if i should be getting married in arya samaj mandir n later getting it registered or should get married in court. i hv heared that court sends notice to parents if one opts for court marriage. would it be legal if i get married in arya samaj mandir and would the marriage be registered later without any trouble. and do court also sends notice in this case. pls help me......her parents are totally against it