I have very simple advice for you.. first is that the girl with whom u wants to marry should be with you even after marrige.. i mean she must be with you and always takes your favour in all condition.. .. and if you marry in Arya Samaj Mandir its very fentastic idea and after getting certificate of marriage from the Arya Samaj Mandir, there is no need to registered the marriage in registration office.. so you can enjoy your relation as husband and wife after getting this certificate. You can take protection of court on behalf of this certificate and no body even police can not touch you at any cost.. My mail id is amitgoel1385@gmail.com.. you can message me for any further query.