Hello
i am from andhrapradesh . My father is Rtrd Govt employee . My bother ,age 32 years . working in a small company with 5000 /Pm . Recently we found one match to my brother from a Village ,Girls(age 20 ) intermediate (+2) discontinued . Her father is a farmer . when both side are ok , we are agree to marriage and we did initial marriage task at girl home .(pasupu ,kumkuma ,saree giving to girl ,this mean girl is our family member ) .Its not engagement ,lagnam . Till here everything went fine .
Later we got to know that Girl father is fully money minded . for money he will do anything . his plan is to separate my brother from family after marriage and want to divide all the properties ( we have only one house even though wanted to separate ) . And Girl is always listens to his father ,so she will play as his father wants . And if we didn't agree to separate ,he wanted to take his daughter and apply for diverse ,followed by share in brothers property (after marriage ) .
After knowing all these ,my parents were very hurt ed and very afraid of my brothers life . Girls family didn't come to my home for doing initial marriage task pasupu,kunkuma (giving dress , pooja .this mean to say that boy is belongs to their family as son-in-law . ) when we are asking about this ,he is not responding . By seeing all these we decided ,not to have match with this girl and family . But ,Girl father is money minded and he wanted money . If we say NO , he may file case and blackmail for money ! Please give me any suggestion how to skip this marriage . we clearly know what is going to happen after marriage and we cant proceed with this family . we want to disconnect from them without any issues . Please provide me suggestion .
Thanks
mpkumr