adcise on staying

Your spouse is providing for accomodation, funds for maintenance for yourself and child.

Try to crease the differneces and save the marriage.

take help of elders, mediators, from both sides.

Most murders take place like this only.  One should find other alternatives instead of going and settling in dangerous environments as your inlaws place. Suppose if they poison you or smother you while you are asleep who is to be blamed? You will die and the kid will be orphan.  Your parents will suffer due to mad decision taken by you.  I am not saying this will happen, but most murders take place like this only.  It appears that your marriage has failed.  Failure of marriage is a consequence of your actions only.  Try not to blame someone else and risk takiing further by moving into father in laws house.

Settle the m atter amicably by taking divorce and move on. Remember when food is stale you can stuff it down your throat one day because you dont have any other food on one night, but daily nobody should do.  Better to find good food and live dignfied life by taking divorce mutually.

This is the case of misunderstanding between husband and wife. whaever it may be there are some solid hidden facts either from wife or husband.. but as wife comes here with question she put her side, same is needed from husband , if wife wants to resolve the problem amicably she also have to open and accept her mistake which she did knowingly or unknowingly,
this is the case in initial stage no any serious level came so far so wife and husband can get unite. but if the commucation gap will prolong the only way left is divorce or long court case battle................ it is sure that husband is moving legally. so he is under the guidance of advocate or he is himself know very much about legal proceeding, another thing is husband is in fear that he may be traped [ falsely ] by wife in DV, dowry etc cases so he is extra cautious , somewhere at any time wife may had given him hint about filing cases or going into police, otherwise it is impossible for a fahter of newborn to tolerate or not to meet his own child. [ unless and untill he assumes or know that wife is in adultry and child is not his own]
this case can be solved when husband and wife both come to one platform and discuss their problems with each other , accept their fault ...... and come up from their ego...