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Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     21 March 2012

Advice me please

sir,
    my self is someshwar sharma from surat,gujarat.i married seven years back n have 5year old son.my wife has an affair from last 1 year so when i asked about it she had argument with me and tension created.my wife has very high dreams she never compromise she need big house n big car myself is middle class fellow cannot able to provide the thinghs.i talk about this to my inlaws but they take her side n said she will live like this only n they will file false case of dowary if i oppose.i was very much deprresed n contact lawyer he advice me to file case in midiation center for comprimise n i do the same.the case is still pending.knowing this she filled case of DV and maintance agaist me.she also file application of mental m phyiscial harrestment with police.now she wants diviorce n alimoney of 10 Lakhs and my son.pls advice how could i get custody of my child

so sir pls adivice me i am ready to stay for sake of my son-------



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**Victim** (job)     21 March 2012

If you prove adultery then you will get divorce freely and might not have to pay maintenance but you will need to provide child support either you get child custody and take care of your son till then you might have to pay child support. I don't understand why your lawyer advised you for mediation ? Matter of fact you should have gone for divorce under adultery.

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     21 March 2012

Proving adultery is difficult.  Hence, engage a good detective and collect evidence about her extra-marital affair.  This evidence will be helpful for you in your divorce case as well as child custody case.

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     21 March 2012

Thanks Sir for your expert advice, i have mobile detail of prepaid number which is on my name .she had frequently calling to him.moreover i have screen shot of her facebook account wall with her comments on him . can i prove my case with this?

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     21 March 2012

Thanks Sir for your advice, i have mobile detail of prepaid number which is on my name .she had frequently calling to him.moreover i have screen shot of her facebook account wall with her comments on him . can i prove my case with this?

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     21 March 2012

Thanks Sir for your expert advice, i have mobile detail of prepaid number which is on my name .she had frequently calling to him.moreover i have screen shot of her facebook account wall with her comments on him . can i prove my case with this?

Ranee....... (NA)     21 March 2012

WHAT WERE THE COMMENTS?These are not enough to prove her affair.

Try to solve throgh discussion as you shoul think of your son now.

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     21 March 2012

Sir but she had filled DV case against me and she wants sepreat room for herself,maintance and i should meet my child in eveining from 6.30 to 8.00  Should i agree with it?

Ranee....... (NA)     21 March 2012

If you don't agree then say this to mediator.Fight the case on merrit.Try to collect evidence against her..like if she has affair she must meet him somewhere..If you can prove her adultary then you will win custody of your son.

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     22 March 2012

Sir, today my lawyer had filled case under section 9 of hindu marrige act,pls let me know that is it will help me?

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     22 March 2012

today was last hearing of my medation case and i disagree with her proposal and say i will face cases agaist me and will accept the verdit

Someshwar Sharma (Propriter)     23 March 2012

Sir,

      i have only call detail of her mobile and my lawyer said this is not enough to prove it.she said RCR will help us in getting divorce


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