Hi,
I have been in relationship with a guy for more than 2 years. Our problem is, we were abroad studying together. I had to lie I that I belong to BC caste because all other friends of mine were of higher castes. But, I belong to low caste. We were friends that time. Once we started realising that we were in love, I decided to tell him the truth. But our situation was quite complicated that he was always saying he would quit studies if I leave him. He will update relationship status on facebook and things like that. Since we were having exams, I thought I should not concentrate on this first and disturb him by saying this.
Once we finished our exams after 6-7 months of being in relationship, I told him the truth and he said his parents wont agree to this. However he said he will not leave me and we were very serious that we shouldnt depart.. We continued this on for more than a year and few months. By this time he told his mom about this. Initially she was angry and said this wont workout. Later after few months when he returned back, his mom agreed our relationship. But she said she cant convince his dad and it is left with time to solve this.
Now, when my parents spoke to his mom, she asked them to look for a better match for me. After this, she started controlling him from talking with me. I called and spoke to his mom once I thought this is becoming an issue. She said she will talk to his dad and let me know. I don't know if she really spoke to his dad or not, but his mom is avoiding me these days. Even the guy is not talking properly but he is talking and he says he is still serious on our relationship though his parents are not accepting to it.
How can I convince them? The guys parents itself have done intercaste love marriage. Now opposing to our marriage is unfair. Please let me know how to approach this. I can't live without him because we were so serious in settling our life together. My mind is also set that he is my life partner. Can I take legal action against his parents decision?
