During my short experience as a lay person in the forum, I noticed the following:
1.Members who are having their own advocates are approaching and posting queries in the forum. I am not aware why this trend is continuing and the reasons stated by you is prevalent in most of the cases, and litigants must have a grip and regularly follow up the cases in their own interest.
2. Most of the queries that require experts opinion and serious issues on questions of law were never replied, and except one or two regular advocates, many of them are not contributing in larger public interest. In several forums, all professionals in the field visit the forum atleast once or twice in a week and either learn new developments or guide members.
3.If the forum can atleast secure the services of one expert per answering 10 queries (maximum) in a day, it is not difficult to get contribution of 365 member experts for proper guidance.
4.In general issues, the replies are mostly from non advocate members, and it is not clear as to whether a Moderator is there in the forum to correct if guidance is not proper.
This is most prestigious and reputed forum, and several lay persons visit for guidance as last resort. It is not clear about the developments and improvements being brought in to help other members. It is time for experts to cater one day per the queries, so that the reputation of the forum continues to grow.
Coming to the query, unless EP has been decided, case can not be concluded. Unless case is disposed further appeal is not possible. How to intervene after preliminary decree and before EP is not being answered by experts,, even in the past queries.
I do not know whether it is your opinion or your advocate's opinion that limitation for appeal is over. To my knowledge when EP is pending (when only preliminary decree that also expartee decree was made) there is still chances of either reviving in the lower court or for filing appeal after case is disposed.
Hope some experts may hear your problem and offers suitable guidance.