Asking husband to visit child

Forget forcing your ex- to come and visit his own flesh-and-blood. If he has no natural affection for the baby, you should not force it upon him. It will lead to complications if it is not out of natural love. 

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Behenji, doosri shaadi kar le. Acha pati dhund le aur bhool ja is aadmi ko jo apne khood ke avlad ko nahi milna chahata hai.

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That said, send him a legal notice ONLY, asking him to visit his son as it would be in the interest of the boy. Why? When you do get married, he has no basis to interfere with your marriage because you can then waive the notice and say... Tab nahi aya tha ab aana chahata hai sirf mere jeevan me interfere karne ke liye!

 

Generally one can seek visitation rights to visit and see the child periodically and an order can be made by the court based on the merits of the application but there is no provision in law to compel one to come and visit his siblings living under the shelter of another natural guardian, i.e., a horse can be drawn up to the pond but one cannot make the horse to drink the water, hence try some arrangements through family mediators keeping the future well being of the child.  Advocate Kalaiselvan, Vellore +919443441062

Sholay ka dharmendra banjao... sui-side ka drama karo... Ghabraake ki koi police case na hojaye, bete se jab kahogi tab milne aayega tumhare bete ka baap. That was filmy on a lighter note.

If he dont want to come n see kid, nobody can force him. Your relationship over.  And it has already started showing its ill-effects due to the divorce which just happnd between u both.

I pity the kid.  All in all I pity you 3, the kid, you, and your husband.

Legally you cannot do anything to make your husband come n see the kid.

If you try commiting suicide etc, you cannot hold your husband responsible for it, no more relationship exists between you both.

If you try doing something stupid like suicide, then, you will lose your life only to make the kid a orphan.

Marry someone else ASAP.

Natural Justice is above to all. If you bring the special features before the Court you will win e.g. child is remembering his/her mother on weekend is is crying, Court may ask to the child to bring out the surface on earth, Now matrimonial matters are looked by family courts and family court is above the law in the interest of the JUSTICE.

Sorry, You are mother please read father in place of mother. There are many provision which is going to settle in future in Higher Court, go ahead and file the suit, consult your child about his future meeting to the trial Judge in the Court Chamber. Your Wining Case will also help others and they quote the ruling in their case. Fight Yourself after filing the suit without the help of any Counsel, there is nothing to loose...Alone fighting show the Genuineness..One thing more STRONGLY QUOTE the behavior of your husband towards his only child / INNOCENT in your permanent maintenance suit with residence facility.. I am afraid if there is mutual divorce between both..perhaps opposite Counsel squared the past/present and future maintenance so please check...GOD BLESS YOU,

thanks Mr. S K Agarawal and others for ur genuine replies.

My baby is just 1.5 years old. his father only saw him once on his birth but now he will be 2 yrs old this year and his father said to lawyer in court that he doesnt want to see his child in life.

so wat to do now?

i really want that my child should atleast know that who is his father and he must visit him regularly.

Rather suprised with this post and its author . 

I have seen so many cases were father is crying for visitation rights and the wife does not want to give visitation rights .But this is just the opposite 

Well, this will lead to a lot of complications. Its better that before the baby knows, you find someone else to father the baby. Such emotional decisions as the one above which you are trying to take will end you up in more trouble than you ever expected !

Well, this will lead to a lot of complications in the future. Its better that before the baby knows, you find someone else to father the baby. Such emotional decisions as the one above which you are trying to take will end you up in more trouble than you ever expected !

thanks Mr. helping hand for ur true suggestions but I don't wanna remarry in my life.

mr. stanley,u r very true that my case is just the opposite as I have also heard about so many cases where father wanna meets the child. but this is my bad luck that this all happened in my life whereas I still love him. anyways, thanks for ur concern.

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