Chargesheet in 498a

Yes...Chargesheet can filed only for you...

Give some bribe to police and he will remove.

Well, what the police submit in their chargesheet depends upon the findings of investigation conducted by them into the case, not really what you'd prefer to have them state in their chargesheet. Apart from complying with the instructions of the notices issued to you by the investigating police officer and defending your case, there isn't much that you can do as to what goes into the chargesheet. So long as you display no intention to abscond, and possess a respectful conduct, assuming you are not guilty you have not much to worry about.   

1. Ask your brother who is awaiting green card NOT to come to India unless this case gets settled even if his name is added in the chargesheet . Nothing will happen to him .

2. Police will definitely add your brother's name who is your sister in law's husband and then you and other family members name might be added too depending upon their investigation. Try talking to Police IO and use means so that maximum family members are never added in Chargesheet.

3. If you have not done anything wrong there would also NOT be any proofs. So relax as nothing will happen to anyone.

4. Based on FIR and Chargesheet, you can seek Quashing too which ofcourse is generally difficult.

5. Once chargesheet is filed and trial commences, you can ask your lawyer to seek exemption from personal apperance u/s 205CrPC which ofcourse is at the discretion of magistrate.