My husband deserted me and new born baby immediately after birth of the baby, he went to court to file a divorce case on basis of cruelty (no evidence). It is almost 4 years that he never enquired about the child, he rejected my plea for providing a part of the salary towards child. Despite 2000 phone calls my me during the first 5 months of deserting, he blocked my phone number. Now, he suddenly appealed for visitation of the child whom he has never seen, just to create problems for me as I have asked for maintenance. Interim Visitation until case is disposed is granted on mutual agreement but on the first day, he brought police and his lawyer at my place evading all security gates of a very secure and posh society via police constables help. He strightaway came to my place and demanded the child to be shown to him. The child wasnt at home at that time, and he created a lot of noise to defame my image in my society. Can i ask him to arrange for visitation at my matrimonial home which is in another city, not my place of living? I dont want non-sense and police coming here. Again, his intention was not to visit the child, but create disturbance. Can i appeal in high court for stay on the interim visitation order after this incident has happened? No where in order it is mentioned that he has to bring police to my house or even come to my house uninformed. It mentioned mutual place of visitation. He did send a threatening email to me 1 day before visitation and an abusive call which was attended by my parents. However, he never mentioned the time when he wants to come or if he is bringing police? I couldnt check the email on time and after the abusive call with my parent, i didnt care about him as it didnt talk about any of the logistics. My husband is a cheat and a fraud, he needs mental treatment before he can be approved as fit to meet any child. He wanted to introduce himself for first time in last 4 years to his child with a police in the background, and that too on a special festive occasion. He could have permanently damaged my child's psycology who is living without seeing a father for last 4 years.
Please guide.