Didn't got divorce for 3 years which filed in court

@ ranjini 

RCR, in no way helps getting divorce.

RCR is the most futile utility.

RCR decree granted in favour of husband can be easily flattened by wife with ease.

living separately sice 2 or more years without any sufficient reason its established cruelty against husband.

on this basus husband myay file desertion case.

somen kr.  choudhary Vs pranati choudhary 2005 1 femi juris c.c 152 Jharkhand

gajjala shankar vs anuradha 2006 2 hla( AP) 111 SC

BUT - First try to sattel your life with mediation proceeding. Try to know why she is not willing to live with you.

Don't mind but something is hidden that you have not disclosed.

COUNTER ATTACK :

In case there is continuous demand of dowry on the part of husband, this would amount to giving reasonable cause to the wife to withdraw herself from the society of the husband.-Narinder Kumar v.Chander Prabha 1990(1)HLR518

this provision is frequently used to flatten the ground of desertion.

Friends...

There are soo many wives like the lady mentioned in the query. Even my wife also dont want to live with me (separated for 2+ years) now I filed divorce. She also telling she will not give divorce to me also.

As per my understanding when I spoke to her, she wanted to run the life in the socity that she is someone's wife and thrown out by the husband so living separatly.

GOD knows what she want really..........