Divorce

@ Yash,

What does your bhabhi want, to save the marriage or divorce? Let your brother talk with her and proceed.

Now she wants to come back. They are not living together from last one and half years. But since her parents came to home and said to her when she was with her that put fire on u and they will go to jail. We can not trust them. My brother wants divorce now.please suggest what we can do to get divorce.

you can apply divorce on the grounds of cruelty and desertion (if its been continuous two years since she had left you).before that file an nc in the police station about the threats issued by your inlaws and your wife also record their activities and keep it as a proof

If you have the proof of her cruelty with you only then proceed further otherwise first gathered the proof and then think for divorce, as per to me if she want to cohabitat with your brother realises her mistake then i suggest ,you must think once to take her back with you because mere threatening from her relatives that lit fire on you and put all of you behind bars is nonsense, i suggest you don't indulged in unnecessary litigations a lots of years will waste in the life, but as you said it is too much then talk to her and proceed amicabily for mcd .

If she (your bhabhi) is willing to join and your brother as well, leaving aside their ego, they must rejoin and enjoy their married life. 1 1/2 years separation shall be cementing their love for each other. Convience both of them.

They have said too much too us. Abused publically. Shown the revolver too to my brother.as a proof we have neighbours who can tell about the incident. Also she killed her baby without informing my brother her father came and gave medicine. We got to know after some time. We have written note from her saying everything she has done and we are not involved in this.now even if they will come together things will not go smooth. We talked to lawyer and he suggested we can put a case. It will drag for 5 6 years and all that. Is it true? Does it mean that bot can not ask for divorce?

The best thing is that your brother should consult a lawyer, discuss the issues in detail and if he still insists on divorce, it is better to go for it instead of brooding over the past incidences without any relief or solution.  

Take opinions from your close relatives and well wishers and consult with a prudent lawyer in your locality.

@Yash - Okay Problems are there. What does your Brother want to do?

Get divorce or Live with Her?

If you ask the Girl - she will have a list of complaints too and expectations.

Some Girls want Nuclear Family.

If your Brother gets divorce - What does he want to do rest of the life? Stay Single.

Or Get Married again.

Remember if the Girl is not working she is entitled to get maintenance and alimony.

What is the status of the Kid? Does the Kid needs to live with only One parent?

Your Brother needs provide Money the Kid for upbringing of the Child.

Ask all this questions to yourself? Find out an answer and then take steps accordingly.

Both parties shouldn't stretch too much. If so the Marriage ties will break.

Wish You Good Luck!!!

 

We want to go with the divorce. how mych time it can take to actually get it. and how much money can be involved in this matter(approx)

If you give the Money as much as the Girl demand you will get divorce as soon as possible.

If MCD - 6 Months. 

If DV and 498a are filed. Case may go as long as you can think.

Money can make many things.