smt monika,
"Can anything be done on the ground that my in-laws cheated with me, they hide their son's unemployment before marriage" this provides you a ground u/s 12 of hma.
i have gone through your postings. i feel - you are still in love with your husband, your only problem is your husband not earning at per your satisfection.
i am in doubt that how your father do not check about his would be son in laws source of income? is your father in law really cheated you or you lying?
it will take just a minute to ruine your family, but to build up the same one will take years together.
YOU HAVE A DAUGHTER ALSO. NOBODY WILL TAKE CARE OF HER AS HER FATHER IS.
BOOST UP THE HUSBAND FOR BETTER EARNING IS GOOD; BUT SIMULTENEOUSLY KEEP IT IN MIND THAT HE SHOULD NOT BE MENTALLY TORTURED.