Hi I got married to a girl in May 2015, exactly after 8 days of marriage we decided to live seperate from each other. The reason behind this decision is her past relationship. She was in relationship for 5 years, she got pregnant and aborted at that time. This has hurted me very badly and it is not possible for me to accept, because before getting engaged I asked her whether she has any past relationship but she lied, before marriage I came to know that she talks to someone over phone even after engagement. But she denied of having physical relationship with him. But after marriage I was feeling ensecure and had fight with her and she accepted. Now its more than one month and I am not able to accept this froud. If she would have accepted her physical relationship before our marriage I would not marry her.
I came to know that we have to wait for one year for the divorce, Now she is at her home town, but that guy is her neighbour and I am not sure whether she can control her of meeting him again. Also I am afraid if she gets pregnant again from that guy. My parents are forcing me to accept her.
I don't want to ruin my life living with her, I'm also afraid of hurting her in depression.