This is what happened with me.
1. married in 2010 june
2. she said after marriage to me "i am not interested in marriage" and also to my father and mother.
3. Starting torturing me, my mother and father.
4. both my parents stayed for one week with us and left my place.
5. She started torturing me like hell for a period of 6 months.
6. her paretns came ath teh end of 6 months to take her daughter for delivery. neither my wife told me not her parents. before leaving my place, all 3 of them abused me, yelled at me and harrassed me. my wife threatened to file DVC on me and my parents and said she will make run for her in the court.
7. i immediately filed RCR to come after delivery. She never responded to the first notice nor she told she gave birth to a baby.
8. when me and my family members visitied to meet at a common spot, she didnot turn up and didnot show me my baby.
9. we left from there and i filed 2nd notice to her saying will take legal proceedings to divorce her.
10. filed the divorce case in my place in 2012
11. one month after, she also filed DVC and 498a complaint in court (in her native place) very far away from my current place (1400+ KM)
12. DVC posted after 1 month for the hearing (first one).
13. on the day of hearing (first one), the MM asked about 498a FIR. police didnt reply anything.
14. after a week, police lodged an FIR on me and my parents.
15. my partents got AB in district court
16. i got AB in high court.
17. now, it's been more than 8 months, she is dragging the case for DVC simply to harass me
18. She also approached the apex court to transfer the divorce case to nearby her place so that i can run for all three cases every month by a distance of 1400+ Kilometers.
kindly let me know, what to do so that my wife cannot drag the DVC case. also, divorce not yet heard in apex court. 498a is going on silently.
regards