I was referred to this forum by some wise people.
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Today my nephew wife has filed domestic violence case on me even for the fact that i have nothing to do with their troubled relationship.
Just being present at the time of mariage does not make you a party to the marriage. Were you living with them in their house? Are there any VDO or audio recordings suggestive of your presesnce? Are there eye witness who can state that you were involved in some act of DV to the said party? I absence of such you are out of the case in max 2 dates that too if you hire a sharp vakeel.
My nephew lives abroad and he and his wife had marital problems his wife had illegitimate relationship with someone and he caught her on the second day of their marriage. He immediately left india and told her that this relationship was over but now she has filed so many cases on him and asking for huge sum of money which he don't want to pay.
There lies the problem. She wants money, he does not want to pay. Frankly you will come out of it within no time, due to age factor and circumstantial evidences. But the nephew will be stuck with this case for the next 6-7 years, and will surely end up getting deported. Go behind bars, spend time there and finally end up paying money to her in the end as maintenance or compensation.
I am 75 years old and already heart patient, with broken vertebra, diabetic, disabled and counting my days to live my last days peacefully. Although justice system has nothing to do with my age factor but I have nothing do with their relationship i was present as a elder to give my blessings during their engagement and his wife has furnished my photograph saying that i was present during their engagement and i have harassed her by saying bad words which is not true.
All such allegations need to be proved in court of law. Simply making allegations wont make you chargeable for such, but its a nuisance in total until the case gets over. It all depends on how your counsel puts forward the case before the magistrate.
Meanwhile i wrote a letter to human rights commission filing complaint against this harassment and they have replied me that within 8 weeks necessary action will be taken. At this age - it is very hard for me to even get up from bed. Meanwhile i have to attend court date and i want to know am i liable for this crime ?
Attending court dates is important as non presence on dates will attract warrant issue and subsequently if not found non-bailable warrant will be issued against you. When caught, you will be at the mercy of the magistrate as to when he will grant conditional bail. Till that time, you will be in jail. That is the power of DV case. Make sure your lawyer attends all dates on behalf of you and that you just need to be present on evidence and cross examination dates.
Do i have to pay her alimony ?
Maybe. It depends on how good or bad your lawyer is, but generally looking at the case, its yuor nephew who has to cough money and not you. Once it is established that you are no where in the marital life picture of your nephew, your are out of the case.
She is claiming 10 lakhs for mental torture.
Let your nephew pay. Just tell in open court the fact that you had been just to engagement and you got nothing to do with your nephew now.
The fact that i am her husbands uncle why am i being summoned for this ?
Even if you were his other uncle whom he ha never met, his wife can file a case against you. No critieria for filing false cases in India.
Can anyone tell me - is this some sort of pattern adopted by wifes where they harass old age people just to get money out of it.
You may as well ask your nephew's wife. and other women whom you may find in court halls, at your age, you an as well have a chat wit the magistrate himself upon request and discuss a word or two with regards to this !!
(P.S. - I have requested someone to type this question on this forum as i don't have good eyesight)
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