Dont want to divorce husband

@ Author,


1. Repeated query if memory recalled correctly.
2. This queriest has given several suggestions vehemently already to other queriest in recent past hence you as in a person are elevated to 'expert' status instead of being remaining queriest now :-)
3. Summing up all your queries you have to make a call what exactly you want out of this sour one sided relationship being faced / handled for next 2–5–7-10-20 years from now and then your vision will clear otherwise you are looping around in a self loop based on pressing in legal forums ‘sentiments and emotions’ whereas Law works best on 'evidence' and or with a ‘amicable solutions brought to Court by party themselves” instead of being part of perennial societal twist.

Reasoning:
You are seeking answer in a Law forum to some of the societal issues between spouses. Be it so Law sees your brief in a very straight forward way

– Divorce on cruelty is all yours by proving just one single allegation i.e. not visiting child when sick and or hospitalized.
- DV relief is all yours by proving just one single allegation by witness statement of character assassination.
- Separation under customary divorce laws via Court procedure is all yours by proving separation and neglect. 
- Maint. for thyself and for child is all yours by proving housewife current profession read with status of parties during marriage
- Child custody is all yours by retaining status quo of minor read with elapsed time and non conformity of best interest / welfare by non-custodial parent as in instance brief read with past several briefs of yours.
- Under Law of Torts 'defamation' case is a nut case to crack at this early stage of litigation as mentioned in your brief(s). However all the very best for your defamation case !
- Marriage is all about adjustments read with give and take and if it does not work between spouses then it is always better to part ways amicably and re-start life and todays' empowered women are doing just that and ‘abala nari’ syndrome remains as in TV serials namesakes.


Now the moment your left brain keep telling you “I love him” all above reliefs are just a frivolous exercise and not much reliefs cometh once way otherthan getting exposed to Courts corridors endlessly. Suggested to train your right brain and there pops clarity as in for next 2–5–7-10-20 years from now what course “your life shall take” and that is called self happiness.


Choice is all yours what you want out of your current marital mess and moving on with your and minor child’s life in a Legal portal forum where 'points under Law is suggested as remedy' not 'social shoulder sharing as norms' which few time pass women writers will now come forward and share the social ethos is my straight forward view on your brief(s) before us.

@ Salma

You have not told where you are presently living, presuming you are living in India, As Muslim Personal Law is applicable on you, you have the following Legal option.:-

1. File for the DV Act as well as sec 125 for maintenance as well as for residence etc.

2. According to muslim personal law he can give divorce to you at any time without any reason... Sorry no one can help you on this point. Hope your "Mehar" is at the higher side.

3. Acc to Muslim Law he can Marry to four woman at the same time and you can't do anything in this.

4. As far as saving of your marriage is concerned, ask the mutual relatives to intervence and try to persuade your husband to bring you back.

5. Concept of RCR is not applicable on you.

6. You can file for the Divorce on the ground of desertion, which you don't want to.

7. In my personal openion your marriage is practically over and you can either live in suffocation or choose to get divorce and try to start life a fresh with your son ( though very hard in India).

You can also file the Criminal case for sec 498-A ( will surely going to be resulted in you divorce).