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Chetan Singh (SE)     14 February 2011

Dowery case urgent advice

Hi All,

I have been charged case 498a ,507,3/4 from my wife.
We did marrige last year on Arya samaj ,but she is like money mined.
This is why we are living seprately in differtnt places in same city.
I had been arrested due to cases on me. I tried so may times to quiet the cases.
but she was asking 5 Lacks as a secuirt amount but not ready for Divorse.
Now the case is opened and we went last three dates for signatures in court, finally my lawer
asked me to get charge report from court so that case can be started.

Tomorrow is my hearing as I have made the charges
to start the case. Tomorrow she will come for to give her view infrot of judge.
I have asked her to finsih the case but she is asking to give her
whole time caring settlement like home,food, money, medices if required
in wrtitten paper.
She is not ready for Divorse but I clearly said to her I will not live with her.

I would like to know what is the best for me since I dont want
to stay with her. Is giving in written in papaers will be headache for me for lifetime



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Legal Fighter (Advocate)     14 February 2011

attend local "save indian family" NGO meetings. you can serach it on google to get to know more about it.

Kiran Kumar (Lawyer)     14 February 2011

there is no need to panic...you have stated so many things for which an immediate solution can not be mentioned.

 

better face the trial and try to prove the charges against you false.

 

however, in the mean time keep on talking to her through responsible persons so that the matter could be finished amicably.

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manjit kalra (system eng)     14 February 2011

giving in written wat?

try for mediation, also hire an expert criminal lawyer.

Chetan Singh (SE)     14 February 2011

Thanks Kiran, for the valuable advice.

1. She wants in written like in stamp paper that I will take care of her in whole life.

2. She is saying no matters if you live with me or not , but provide me room on rent, food ,clothes .

 

manjit kalra (system eng)     14 February 2011

contest the case with ur full strength.

Chetan Singh (SE)     14 February 2011

Is there any guidelines for me that saves me.

1. Only due to her complain I was arrested for 15 days.
Due to my parents I got bailed.
2. I have fear, if by only her saying infront of Judge
may becomes difficult for me to save , or any proof required from herside.
3. She had made complained that I blackmailed her for Dowery , that is also false.
4. she had complained that I have beaten her which is false.
She has no proof of any things but only by her words is enough?or will Judge will also hear my views?

Chetan Singh (SE)     14 February 2011

And As per her Financiall conditaion she is lower middle class girl. She has left her home and her parents are

saying they are not responsible for her, you did the marriage so bear yourself.

Kiran Kumar (Lawyer)     14 February 2011

frankly speaking, I would still suggest you pacify her politely and seek help of elders.

 

there can be some differences between you both but try to sort of amicably.

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Ambika (NA)     14 February 2011

Sane advice from Kiran Kumar Sir

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Chetan Singh (SE)     14 February 2011

Ok, but what for tomorrow, she will be present infront of judge and if she spoken against me?

Can the case can be rolled back any time? or need to convence her before she prsent in front of judge.?

Avnish Kaur (Consultant)     14 February 2011

contest the case , and try mediation, if u still want to live with her
 

advocate namrata shrey (lawyer)     14 February 2011

Hi Aman,

why don't you try for LOK ADALAT

LOK ADALAT is a great measure to settle the dispute amicably with the help of concillation officer.

For more details you can visit Chief judicial magistrate or State Legal Services Authority office in the court premises in your area'

most of the cases relating to the marital relationships or the disputes there in can be sorted  out with the help of courts itself , but its very important to fight your case when u feel that all the doors of concilliation are closed.

you have to prove all the allegations contrary regarding demand of dowry, cruelty, voilence etc and believe me its not  very hectic job. if you are true you just need a good lawyer to handle the case with elbow grease efforts.


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