dowry n dv

Now that you are not having any intentions to file divorce, remember that divorce can not be granted with out your active involvement.  Have patience and slowly the relations may develop and do not complicate things in family by going against family members unless it is a must.   Mere not permitting you entry in kitchen is not a crime, but not giving you food is a serious crime.  Consult your elders and wait for few more months and do not ignite further complications with your hasty actions.  

You concentrate on your criminal charges and cases, try to win these thus proving your husband and mother inlaw guilty. If you loose these cases your husband will have excellent ground of creulty for getting divorce from you and no one can stop him for getting it whether you agree for the same or not. Your consent and signature required only divorce by mutual consent not unilateral divorce filed against you by your husband on available grounds like creulty.