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sunil sunil (sv)     14 January 2012

Dowry versus loan

I had gone for higher studies in UK just after my marriage. My father-in-law had loaned 5 lacs via cheque for the expenses of both myself and my wife to help us out when I was a student. There was no loan document - it was just lent informally. There was no coercion and this was in his means. I got a scholarship and returned the money via travelers checks the next year. I don't have proof of the money being returned. My wife is now threatening to file 498a after 9 years of marriage. I do have proof of 15 lacs that I had transferred to her family two years ago, which is thrice the original amount but transferred much later.


How should I deal with this situation? Can I use the latter transfer as a return of the original money since I don't have any proof of the first return? Should I just try to settle?



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Kumar Doab (FIN)     14 January 2012

Your father in law has transferred money to you ( single or joint a/c) and you have transferred money to your father in law/family of in laws.

Your father in law helped you and your wife so he cared. After 9 long years of marriage there are some issues/altercations. You must put in some efforts and generate proof of first transfer also, and maintain an a/c.

If your FIL is reasonable try and get some communication stating he has sent money to his daughter and received it back.

It is felt that this should be resolved mutually or with the help of elders and near and dear ones.Both the partners should be counselled and marriage should be saved.

Save in your personal/indivisual accounts also and keep record of each transaction.

The litigation can be long and painful.

sunil sunil (sv)     15 January 2012

I am expecting cases against me shortly and reconciliation has failed.


The first transfer was to my sole account. There are records of this. Unfortunately, no records of my first return.

Kumar Doab (FIN)     15 January 2012

Approach an experienced and competent lawyer at your location as ap.

rajiv_lodha (zz)     15 January 2012

I do have proof of 15 lacs that I had transferred to her family two years ago, which is thrice the original amount but transferred much later.

This will sail u out!


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