Both me & my wife were Divorcee prior marriage. My past marriage was dissolved on mutual understanding. Recent Marriage - Alliance came through Jeevansathi Matrimony in the Month of Oct 2009. However, the truth about past of my present wife was not revealed to me and the past narrated to me was mutual understanding divorce and that she had arguments and the marriage was not working. Hence, I agreed, trusted her and got married to her under the Hindu Marriage act in some sanstha at Thane in the month of Dec 2009 without doing a background verification. All expenses of Marriage to the tune of approx. 15,000/- were born equally by the girls side as well as from my end, 50:50. Marriage was a low profile marriage as it was a 2nd one. In her Jeevansathi Profile she had put No Annual Income although she was earning to the tune of Rs. 30,000 to 35,000 pm including sales incentives as she was working for Bajaj Allainz as Asst. Manager. Also, she had highlighted - Occasional Drinks is okie as per her expectation from the Groom. She had also highlighted in her profile that she is undergoing the MBA course through Symbiosis Distance Education, however after marriage did not find her studying for it. Seems this was another trap for a groom to get married.
Before the marriage, Honey Moon Plane tickets were booked and all the expenses to the tune of Rs. 1,00,000/- were spend by me. However, during honey moon she quarelled with me on small petty issues and compared me with her previous husband. She fought on small petty issues asking me about my investments as well as investing in their village for lands in her name which i totally disagreed. Also, she wanted me to sponsor for massage packages during honeymoon trip; to which i replied her to sponsor the same. Her reaction to this was only a boy needs to spend and girls only enjoy. She had been very abusive during honey moon and although the marriage was consumated once she ignored me physical closeness, thereafter.
Somehow, it being 2nd marriage I thought, let's give time. However, post returning at home also she use to be violent, abusive to me and my parents on small petty issues whenever i showed disintrest in revealing about my future plans of investment. Prior marriage she forced me in an emotional trap and made me invest 1 Lakh rupees in Bajaj Allianz - Fortune Plus as she was falling short of achieving her sales targets. However, although i invested the money i made sure that it was invested in my name and secondary as my father. The plan was not explained to me properly and the investment done now has lost considerable principal amount, since I have stopped paying premium as I do not want her family member / her (sister in law) to enjoy on those premium. While she was working and on pay rolls of Bajaj Allianz, she had made several agents from her family and she use to grab the commissions. Not sure, but seems it's Money Laundering while on Job which I came to understand post marriage.
She use to continously argue with me and my parents everyday and never prepared any food or was interested in household activity as a result of which peace of house was lost. We ensured that we didn't pay any heed, whenever she was yelling & abusive. On Feb 2010, 1st week of Sunday, i bought a bottle of Thumps up for her and my mother and I told her that she and my mom cud have thumps up whereas me and my father would proceed for a peg of scotch. She again reacted violent and started abusing like a phsyco person. I called her brother and made him listen her voice intensity which was also heard in our society. Her brother told me immediately without any delay u send her at her paternal place. In the event of this, she was also abusive to my father and mother, who tried to console her. Finally. as this was not bearable my father said to me do not take out the Scotch outside as the mental peace was disturbed. That day, Me and my parents did'nt had Lunch. However, I convinced her to have lunch, which she had. In the afternoon, I came in the Hall and was talking to my father on some diffrent subject. She interfered and again use abusive words and called me inside the bedroom. I went in the bedroom to avoid conflict. There she told me, You have to take me to five star hotel today as you are my husband to which I refused and told her that I am not in the mood as I cannot afford five star hotel. After that she slept and in the evening got ready alone and commanded me to comeout of the house immediately. I told her to wait for 5 minutes as i was reading a book and about to complete a paragraph. Instantly she said, I am leaving this house and no more want to stay here and left the house with her clothes. She left the house angrily and i called her brother and told him to inform me once she reaches.
Post that incident there was no call from her end. I tried calling her brother but he also told me let her stay for some period here and then we will think. A week later, without informing she came along with her parents, brother with the intention of collecting the Stridhan as an excuse for a Holy celebration function at their village. When I told her to wait she started quarelling with me in front of her parents. Her Mother threatened me, If you try to stop my daughter now, she will commit a suicide. Her Brother, further commented she will return after the Holi festival and we have come to collect her Stridhan for Holi. We trusted them, and she and her mother entered the bedroom to collect the stridhan. When I tried entering her brother politely resisted me and told me that his sister and his mother are discussing something. In the event of all this, she not only collected her Stridhan but also collected the Stridhan, which I had gifted her for the marriage without our knowledge. While leaving our place she threatedned us near the doorside that she will log false complaints against me and teach me and my parents a lesson and left the matrimonial home.
When my mother saw the wardrobe, she was shocked to see no Stridhan in the cupboard which I had gifted her. Hence, there was no alternative for me except to log a police complaint NC @ local police station. As there was no call and communication from there end, I sent her lawyers notice with the above complete happenings. As a reply to my notice, they sent a reply with all false allegations on me and my parents and also denied that they had taken the stridhan. Post that there was a false call from kalyan Police station. They threatened me and pretended that it was a call from Kalyan Chicken Ghar police station (so called constable) who told me to come down immediately to the police station as your inlaws and your wife have logged a complaint against you. The call was from a mobile phone. When I denied and told them that there is a notice sent by my lawyer as well as NC done at our local police station and that if they wanted to meet me then they need to come down at our local police station. Hearing this, the constable pretended and handed over the cell phone to the Sr. Inspector and told me that you speak to our sr. inspector. The inspector threatened me and said "he kai Tujhya Bapacha Rajaya nahi, mukatyane kalayan police station la udya 11 am waje paryanta upastit raha. He further said to me that your wife has 50% right on your property. While he was talking to me from his cell phone, I could hear my Father in Laws voice murmurring from behind.
After an hour, To check the authenticity of the call, I called up the same cell number from where the call came from. There was no response initially and it went on ringing. When I tried after 15 minutes, it was not reacheable. To check the authenticity from local MTNL helpline I came across the landline number of Kalyan Chicken Ghar Police station and asked them whether there was any complaint logged against me, to which they replied, " There was no complaint logged against you and that the call was not initiated from there police stations. Hence, Understanding that it was a criminal intimidation attempt as well as threatening Call for the sake of grabbing money from us, I went to the local police station and narrated the entire experience and also showed the number to my local police station where the call came from. Logged a 2nd NC against my in laws under Section 504, 506, 507 & 34 of IPC.
In addition to this there was a reply in form of small rejoinder notice from my lawyer from our end; wherein the false allegations notice from there end were denied and also there criminal attempt highlighted.
In the month of June 2011, I received her DV Summons agian making same false allegations and also involving me and my parents in the False DV case. As my lawyer was not practicing at Kalyan, there was no alternative for me, except to change the lawyer with the help of one of my Uncle who is a Top Notch Criminal Senior Advocate practicing in Mumbai. He advice me a very good lawyer who is specialised in DV, 498 as well as Criminal cases at Kalyan.
Post discussiong my case with him, he adviced me to find out the Past background of my wife from her former husband. As I had overheard her husbands name while she was arguing with me during Honey Moon, I tracked his profile from Orkut and came across his Residential station in Mumbai. With the same reference, I made more than 15-25 calls to diffrent MTNL subscribers and finally landed up with one of their relatives who helped me with her husbands residential number. Initially, he was reluctant to divulge any info as I was a stranger to him but somehow I was able to convince him about the genunity of the case. However after a week time, he called me up himself and told me everything about this lady as well as her parents and brother background. He directed me to his lawyer who helped me with all orignal documents wherein this lady had logged false, vextious & frivilous cases of 498A with her earlier husband, Sister in law, Parents as well as maternal uncle with the intention of extracting money. In the case of 498A she turned out to be a hostile witness and also she was getting maitainenece of Rs. 3500 irrespective of the fact that she was working and was completely independent.
Managed to get the orignal copies of all these papers with the help of her former husbands lawyer at a cost. However, cost is no important here as the copies of these papers were filed as a reply to the Domestic violence summons sent by this lady and her family members. Me and my lawyer had worked hard and discuss the case in detail and cover all the atrocities done by this lady. Her DV Summons have all false allegations done against me and my parents and also to the extent of not allowing her Stridhan to be taken, threatening her, me not ready to take her to Honey Moon hence her father sponsoring for the Honey Moon trip. I have replied to the notice of all credit card transactions refrence as well as Bank Cheque details. Till date they have failed to reply to the same notice and also not filed their affidavit as well as evidence. In the last hearing, the official of the court told them that now they have to file the affidavit as well as evidence without any further delay. there practice is to just call us in the court sign off the attendance and go away. Seems they do not have guts to stand before the Judge.
Her Lawyer happen to call my lawyer in the month of Jan asking us to pay Rs. 25,00,000/- to which my lawyer replied that they had already taken the Stridhan gifted by me and that we are not in a position to give them anything.
In Parallel to this, we have logged a Criminal Case against her as well as her Parents and brother who all were involved as per previous incident narrated in the same Kalyan court. For the last criminal hearing, only she and her brother turned up and signed some bond. Her Lawyer gave some undertaking note to the Judge. They gave an excuse that her parents could not turn up since they had goneto their native place, village. The Judge has put the remarks as Allowed only till next hearing and also directed them to pay Surety for Bail amounting to Rs. 15000/- each and also asked for witness. Post filing the criminal case, I had to narrate the entire experience to the Judge to which police verification was ordered wherein I had to go to Kalyan Police station and give my statement which was documented. To the same statement, the reply of all 4 acused in this case was also documented. Wanted to highlight here, That the reply of all 4 is deviating and diffrent.
In addition to this, I have alos logged a cruelty Divorce case against her. Last week there was a hearing but no one turned up from their end. Not even her lawyer. On that day in the morning her lawyer called up my lawyerasking him which court the divorce matter is in. My Lawyer gave them all the details although the it seems the summons had reach them. Their Lawyer again called by at the end of the proceeding and apologised for his non presence.
Please do let me know also your expert advice in this regards. They had asked my salary certficate which is filed in the court and copy of them is with them. We have also got her Salary certificate of recent job where she is showing that she is a HR Officer with a salaray of Rs. 10,000/- pm which is again unbeliveable.
This marriage is no Marriage and is infact a cheating by my in-laws and wife. The Marriage that too for a short period of 2 months wherein she was not ready for having a kid. Awaiting your valuable advice which will enable me to close on all this at the earliest.
