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Rajesh Kumar (Advocate)     20 February 2010

Gender Discrimination Revealed- UTV Emotional Atyachar

We have seen various episodes of UTV Emotional Atyachar. The reality tv shows that a man can cheat in a relationship, a woman can cheat in a relationship (in fact you always need a cheater women for a man to cheat and vice versa). Sometime cheater man is caught and sometime cheater women is caught on camera. Gender Neutral. The discrimination starts once cheating is caught. I have seen in various episodes that whoever has been caught, it is always the man who was slapped at the end. If he caught cheating, he deserves to be slapped. If he catches his women cheating, he is to be slapped for he is spying.

I am still thinking as to why are men always found guilty for slapping in our so called male dominated society. If he caught cheating, he is to be slapped. If he catches his women to be cheating, he is to be slapped.

When man moves for divorce, he is lacking commitment. If a women moves for divorce, man is not taking good care of the wife.

So much so of male dominated society. Men are born to be slapped.



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Arup Kumar Gupta, Korba, Chattishgarh ((m)9893058429)     21 February 2010

sir ji,

it is wrong to say, indian society is male dominated - it was.

it was - before the independence. now it is purely a women dominated society. zender is the subject matter of constituioal provisions. the male - if he cheated she - he will be punished under art 15(1) of COI; if he is being cheated by she; he will punished under art 15(3) COI. The only save persons are hizras - who do not marry.

even a bachelor may be trapped saying he did intercourse promissinfg marriage to she.

i feel men are now in the position of broiler of the poultry; their life is dedicated to the women of the country.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Adv P & H High Court Chandigarh)     22 February 2010

It is not good to become such demolarized. Man has ruled this world till last various decades now should not change come?

 

This was woman Seeta who followed her husband Ram in Vanvas without her fault. It was Savitri who even brought back the life of her husband from Yamraj. It was Damyanti who sacrificed her life for her in-laws family. Women is our mother, daughter, sister, wife so it requires due respect and not jeolous. Nature always brings change and if it is taking place, manfold should digest it rather showing its ageold dominance.

Arup Kumar Gupta, Korba, Chattishgarh ((m)9893058429)     22 February 2010

mr makkad, all the case you told are mythological.

personaly, i believe that never the society was either dominated by man or woman. it is an cheap explanation that, a perticular society is dominated by a perticular zender. the fact is man and woman both have some natural advantage; which they own from neature; and some natural disadvantages. due to above reason, and the scientific development of the society,  the balance between the man and women changed  time to time. which causes the, inconvinience to a perticular zender. in a general sense we called it a perticular zendar domination.

in the era of dowery; 498a; dv; it seems that a tremendous women domination is there, in the society.

Rajesh Kumar (Advocate)     22 February 2010

Arup is Right- at all points of time both men and women had their natural advantage, and benefited from that. From their distinct advantages, society benefited.

In the present circumstances, many of the women qualities has become advantageous- qualities like patience, listening skill, communication skill (collectively called soft skills) etc. On the other hand men's qualities like aggression, physical work, risk taking ability etc. has become more a liability than asset. Off course it will result in greater role of women in peace times, and it should happen.

However, what is discriminatory is abusing the men's quality (which is extremely necessary in some other times), alleging historical exploitation of women by men, creating a situation in society where masculine traits are suppressed, legislating laws to criminilise and humiliate men and gender discrimination against men.

What is happening on UTV Bindass shows this discrimination only-

If anything goes wrong- BLAME IT ON MEN. 

 

Rajesh Kumar (Advocate)     23 February 2010

Dear Mr. Raj- we have sita and savitri in mythology. But there are many more.

Shantanu was a king, fell in love with an ordinary women. The women deals in love, stopped devbrata from becoming king and ultimately resulted in mahabharata. Dashratha gave a boon to wife, and how that was used- to demand (send Rama to jungle) something which killed the loving husband. I can tell you many more.

But there is a brighter side. Some women didnt show love, but they refused love and it changed the history. Anagulimaal's wife refused to share sin with him, and a balmiki was born and we have ramayana. Tulsidasa was refused love, and we have Ramcharitmanas. Kalidas was rediculed by a women and we have most beautiful literature in sanskrit. Arjun was cursed by apsara, and he was saved in agyatvaas.

The best thinh happen to a man is refusal of a women.

Arup Kumar Gupta, Korba, Chattishgarh ((m)9893058429)     23 February 2010

unique.

Rajesh Kumar (Advocate)     24 February 2010

Reality is stranger than fiction.

Rajesh Kumar (Advocate)     02 March 2010

Days of gender discrimination are numbered- some good pictures

https://picasaweb.google.com/rajeshvakharia40/NagpurMarathon2010#


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