| Originally posted by : Subrato | ||
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why are you so worried about how she lives the party?maybe she enjoys watching other people's dances.let her be free.
wot if she dances like a fool(because she doesnt know how to dance) and you both becum the laughing stock of ur entire social circle.the,neither you nor she will ever be able to attend any party in ur life.you will not be able to face these people again.
many people are reserved nad have no frenz.its not a big deal.i knw of gurls who spend so much time wid frenz that they pay no attention to family.
your relatives are mean.they want a talkataive DIL,but when their own DILs talk too much they complain that she is a gossipper,has no values,parents did not teach her to speak less in front of elders,etc.Typical north indian mentality.
rather i have seen that women who are too talkative,extrovers,confident,dashing etc are more prone to having extra marital affairs,since men are charmed easily by their bright personality.do you want this to happen to you?
your wife is unique are rare.so they may not be liking her.they only like shoffs,drama people who only know cheap gossips.its their prob.,not hers.in today's time v.few people value and respect honest,genuine,decent people.most are attracted to selfish,mean and bad charactered people.havent u read that even young girls get more attracted to bad boys,instead of good decent polite boys,as they find the latter boring.same thing applies here.
Even I have seen that they are overprotective.They keep giving her instructions which are given to a 5 year old child,such as cross the road carefully.She knows how to cross,but I often get amused when they treat her like a baby.
she is a soft innocent girl.rather cute type.so parents must be thinking she's not so smart enuf to take care of herself.wots wrong in that?many men are mamma's boys too.they remain the same even after marriage,even when they have crossed 45+.so?
yes,she is seedhi saadhi.not quarrelsome.if she cannot fight,you do it.in many couples i have seen 1 partner is submissive and one is dominant.so what the big deal? But when my own mum or sis point out her faults,she gets hurt and wants to share with me how much they nag her.So contradictory!
if she is a shy girl and not a party animal,does it mean she lost all the rights to share wid you that she's being illtreated.u tuk pheras wid her promising to protect her always.she is simply asking for ur protection.cant she get hurt when the whole parivaar is only finding faults.
are your frenz psychiatrists?did u take her for their diagnosis?.even if she cant carry herself or has low esteem,is that a sin?what if she was overconfident,tomboyish and looked down upon you?
all of us hv our own ways to enjoy.if these things make her happy,how do u get affected?what if she starts taking interest in malls,pubs and comes across a dashing guy in a mall with whom she elopes one day,who earns more than you.these are are accessed by crorepati business guys also,not just MNC managers like u.remember this.
if she becomes bald like one of our ratnas,once she has allowed those chemicals and electric current to pass thru her beautiful hair,will u be okay taking her to those parties?will u be ready to spend another few lakhs for hair transplant.she is v.wise in deciding not to play wid her hair.
no no,please carry on.. |
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