Harassment by wife

I hereby request all the honourable lawyers to kindly help me ,as my wife is torturing me on daily basis and threating for divorce ,where as she doesn't treat me as husband ,i am just a person to cater their financial needs and worker to help them for home,or external works are concerned.I have two kids( boys) of 5 years and 7 years. She has earlier lodged forge case of dowry and that time I requested her and her parents to withdraw the case they withdrew the case conditionally and took all the things from us. Again after 2 years she has started behaving dominantly and threatens me to lodge case of dowry,harassment divorce. Actually she is graduate ,her father is retired from pvt company,her mother is teacher ,brother is working in pvt co. they have intentions to take all my properties,and parent's properties. I request all seasoned lawyers to kindly help me and tell me the way forward to get rid of day to day harassment and to curb their malified intentions to grab my properties. kindly reply .