Originally posted by :Rajendra kumar
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As my divorce case is going on in court and will take few years to get the decision.
I already made my mind that I will not live with my first wife as she made my life like a hell.
For utilizing this precious time in searching next wife what should I do so that these many rounds or court/police station will not occur in future.
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Respecting your thought process which is bad so far as current trend goes, here are my views which you have every right to reject;
Option 1 – Best is to study Law by enrolling yourself in a part / full time course, who knows after the cases are over you may get an offer for internship in my Chamber and or at one of my fellow brothers Chambers and make honest money out of such noble professions.
Reason:
Have read your one too many queries here (nothing wrong posting so many queries I must add). But it seems you are not aware of two anti men Laws in the making; Hindu Marriage (Amendment) Bill and Sexual Harassment Bill. With the first Law if I give you way out to verify character obviously since you are a man you would like a woman's character verified then if suppose you marry her after your divorce and other cases are over then she is eligible for Half of your then property and secondly with second Law in the making, if you as you say to us are in business then you are bound to be hit by Sexual Harassment charges and or Women Reservation in Domestic Workforce Laws if even no women is there in your workforce at that time. So option 1 is currently best bet for men having some brush with in- laws J .
Option2 - Take life easy till acquittal and divorce case over and or MCD whatever you end up at the end of your brush with you in-laws and by then you are called one among dozen wise-men of India and you will not be in need to seek further answers to your this question.
Reason:
Today if I tell you way out to verify character and by the time you come out of clutches of Law you are currently in middle of probably new strategy I might suggest then so present way out may not be even applicable then is my view.
However before you hit the sleeping pill reading verbatim reply the best legal way out to your question before me is to hire a detective on Letter Head and seek Character verification with time/date stamped photographs sets of lady having probably clean antecedents as of date of verification is the way to verify character of lady for prospective marriage. But beware the same detective may take double the fees from a smart lady and give her a clean chit so then donot come back especially to me seeking if I should opt now for option 1 J
[Sum -total if you are born with special belssings of lady LUCK then only ask again this question and receive sure-shot answer otherwise gone for fishing is the best self answer].