My husband has been forced into the relation and he was not behaving as a husband anytime and never treated me as a wife. He had no excitement with marriage from day 1. His cold behavior disturbed me a lot which led to lot of fights and arguments. Also he had some sort of affair with his colleague which I found out from his emails for which he found out some excuses and defended himself. I had discussed this with my friends and family and everyone agreed with me.
My husband realized that I will not adjust with his cold behavior since I came to know his secret. He decided to leave me for which he waited for situations wherein wantedly he provoked me by coming home late, asking me to give money and eating outside. So I used to get angry as I am his wife not a stranger or enemy to behave like this. FInally he made a plan to go to India together and tell before parents that we are incompatible and he will leave me. Somehow parents forced him and he also agreed to stay for more months and see how it goes. Those months were the hell to me. Because he already made plans of separation and he stopped complete communication with me instead of reconciling with me. He never tried to get together with me. Always treated me as a piece of cra**, no respect at all towards me. Then he separated and left me alone at the home not even telling where he is shifting. I also left after sometime to a different place. Then he started blaming me saying I took the jewelry with me which is in the locker. I really donot know what he wants to do with my jewelry and then he started threatening me he will go legal and effecting me mentally/emotionally by calling me cheap and other things.
I only used to do the whole household work. He never helped me with anything at home and even financially, I used to serve him as a perfect wife trying to win him. But at the same time he is finding problems with my personality. WHats wrong with me. I used to cry for many days thinking about it
What to do with this kind of man? Please advice me. I want to get compensation for the loss of my time, age energy spent. We have been married for 2 years almost and we are staying in usa.The marriage is not consummated since he is not interested in that. We are both working before and after marriage in usa
