Judicial seperation filed against wife ...untolerable!!!!

what do u want to achieve through Judicial Separation ??

seems - ur lawyer advised to file & u followed him

first take a firm decision & then act accordingly.

1. With only incidence narrations not collecting proofs [of domestic violence which many Indian men suffer silently every day in some or the corners of India either they are not bold enough to report OR no one hears / believes that a Indian married men can also face domestic violence from wife / In Laws] by reporting to Police Control Room # 100 or get made police general diary entry, you were rightly adviced to file for JC. Contentious peace of mind is call of the day in such limited brief is my view and average Indian men donot know still much family Laws.
2. Afterall a JC can turn into Divorce decree it is just matter of time.
3. Keep certified copy of petition and watch for any counter blasts from her side in nearest day.

@Querist,

For the time being, you must digitally recored all your conversation with your wife and in-laws.This will help you in the hard time which is yet to come.

Note-This reply should be taken as per the declaration given in my profile page.

Thanks,

Regards,

@amit:

i want to achieve life time seperation from her.......that means divorce.......i can't live with a person who is constantly insultingand abusing my parents . she wants 30 lacs rupees for mcd.......i don't want to pay a single rupees......she is rich.....so she want a slave in d name of husband who can dance on her fingertips.....

@ Tajobs india:

thanks for your couraging reply.....tht will boost my moral support.. still untill i write this there is no case on me.....but i am expecting 498a, DV as gift package on my birthday which is in this week......bcz she used to said that she will put a case on my birthday and that way she will gift me different allegation and send me into behind the bars on my birthday.........

@need justice:

ya she is in ahmedabad only....but matrimony home and her mother's home are about 20kms away....

i am not scared about her wrong different allegation but i am scared about my elder parents......and rented home was on without any rental agreement and they forcefully made me to live there for the just the sake of money. as they are related with buider business.  her fater was a big builder and have very much blackmoney....even after filing petition when i go back to take my home stuff which was given by my parents and some of them are bought from my income..she changed a lock of flat.......so my medical reports and other home stuff are lying there........how should i recover that?? she tortured me such a way that i was depressed and got suffered from long 15-25 days sickness......she also broke my mobile phone at d time of recording her abusing towards me and my other family members......as i was sick i was unable to protect myself....she used to beat me on small small matter and throwing household stuffs on me......

BE A MAN AND FACE THE CHALLENGE LIKE A MAN. There are many victims in this forum who had never been to court earlier in life but they rose to the challenge and made their inlaws bite the dust. Just hire a  honest and competent lawyer and he will take care of the rest. I can assure you that after you come out of this phase you will feel stronger like never before.Later you  should be able to get MCD on terms agreeable to both parties.

regards ASHOK

Hello dear experts and Seniors,

Greetings.

In the past month i got a gift package of DV act...in which filed all false allegation u/s 18, 19, 20 & 22.

I got today certified copy of DV case...facts below mentioned........

u/s 18: protection order

u/s 19: 3000 Rs towards rent: she did a rental agreement on her name without my knowledge just 1 day prior to file a DV case. I filed judicial seperation on 16 th april..

u/s 20: 5000 Rs for food, clothes and other expensis.

u/s 22: Rs. 5,00,000 but nothing mentioned in detail

My point is she did a rental aggreement. on 21.5.13 for 2 yrs.......do a judge forcefully made me to pay her rent seperately..?? i filed judicial seperation on 16.4.13

they took me forcefully live over there.......no where i was agree to live over there.

My income is around 10000 rs......she also mentioned that i have a medical shop in parterner ship( i give my pharmacy licence for jst a little money.....to medical shop owner) 

even last few day i recieved a phone calls from police station regarding 498a....In DV case she made a false allegation regarding dowry........which is totally baseless.......against all of 4 my family members........

Experts please give replies or suggestion....

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Relief only if domestic violence has happnd.  Or else no relief.  So fight case on merits.

Dear Experts,

In my Judicial seperation case wife file under HMA 24 asking for maintainance rs. 10000 per month and 25000 as litigation expenses........now also under DV case she is asking for maintainance..around 8000 rs.....now what should i do to avoid multiple maintaince........is Withdrawn of Judicial seperation case help me in this scenario.......or she can definately can get maintaince under different section.......i am very confused and stressed...........bcz i m from middle class family......wht could protect me from avoiding different multiple maintainance.........

Thanks......

Originally posted by : harrassed husband
	Dear Experts, In my Judicial seperation case wife file under HMA 24 asking for maintainance rs. 10000 per month and 25000 as litigation expenses........now also under DV case she is asking for maintainance..around 8000 rs.....now what should i do to avoid multiple maintaince........   Let her ask maintenance in another 10 courts, beg in each and every court.  But this is court, beggars will beg at railway station, bus stand, airport, temple, church, gurudwara, etc, for them can ask anywhere.  but in court can ask at 10 places but can get alms only at 1 court, under 1 section of law.  Read the attached judgment I am posting herewith for your information, you can also use the citation in objections too.. is Withdrawn of Judicial seperation case help me in this scenario.......or she can definately can get maintaince under different section.......i am very confused and stressed...........bcz i m from middle class family......wht could protect me from avoiding different multiple maintainance......... Thanks......

Even litigation expenses she can ask only once, and at one court, and once such litigation expenses are paid, that is for the entire case, ie till case gets over she cannot ask litigation expenses again and again.

Dont take any stress, its just the beginning, you have a long way to go.

Helping hand,

Plz be kind to elaborate if you may kindly.

How and what could be the proof that domestic violence did happen.

I have been falsely accused in DV, got notice yesterday.

would appreciate suggestion and explaination.

thanx in advance