Kindly give us proper advice on the followings

Allahabad high court would have granted you stay of arrest and would have referred the case to mediation centre. Is your mediation in progress or hasnt started.

There are only three ways the cases can be solved at the mediation centre:

1. You seperate- In that case you would need to agree for Mutual consent divorce and pay whatever alimony decided and documented there. Both sides withdraw there cases so you would withdraw your Sec-12.

2. You agree to live together- then the girls side will withdraw there cases and you would withdraw yours and start again- mostly it dont happen after FIR is registered.

3. No Settlement - Mediation fails - In that case mediation centre will send its report to HC that mediation failed and the case on listing will be decided mostly it cant be quashed at this stage so the HC will send it back to the trial court in UP. Your stay of arrest/proceedings would be withdrawn and you will have to secure regular bail from Trial court within a timeframe defined in the HC order.

with regards to your query on shifting the cases to Haryana thats not possible because the other party would have definately included some instances that happened in haryana this is done to prove jurisdiction as if they dont include any instances in FIR that happened in haryana then the court there would have no jurisdiction.

I am not a lawyer but am going through Mediation @ Allahabad so the three options are the ones that have been conveyed to me by the mediator and post mediation failure there are not much remedies that are available from HC.