Love marriage problem - help

1.donot play hide and seek withyour parents......
2. discuss with your parents, his parents and then find a solution.......shortcuts are not worth in regitered marraige cases.....

Dear querist,

First of all I would like to appreciate your choice that you have done a love marriage through special marriage act.

But at other end I would like to state that you are a damn selfish and fattu kind of gril who marries a boy with his own choice and leave that man by her own parents choice.

Shame on you lady !

If you were not daring to hold his hand until the climax  then why you have married to him. You would have gone through arranged marriage according to your parents wish,why you have ditched him?

As per your querry,you only mentioned problem with that boy...

Now i will tell , won't you think the same problem will not occur in your arranged marraige,how sure you are that.

My dear querist, In an arranged marriage problems are more accute if it fails due to incompatability or adjustement or demand or ego whatever .....then what you will do?

Again you will come on this forum and ask the same question or you would be enhanced with enough knowledge that how to do third marriage.

As per your query you only wrote that how much he loves that he cut his vain but for whom?

For you sweet baby.....!

He came no. of time to your home....for whom?

For you sweet baby.......!

and what have you done------just shattered the door infront of his face,how brutal that was!

My dear querist, in love marriages the choice is only for two things---- do or die,no third thing.

But in your love marriage, no die before 2nd,3rd marriage.... isn't it?

A sincere advice to you just respect his feelings as he loves you more than you and Iam sure that what ever your parents will choose for you will be not replaced by his love.

Just go ahead talk to him,sort out the problems and be ready to face consequences by holding each others hand.

If again he do the same mistakes and reapetedly hurts you intensionaly,then leave him and think for your best,but now as per your query and the way you have asked only demands you to accept your love marriage.

regards,

A sufferer...

no i dont want this marriage and want to marry as per my parents wish.

what if he does suicide and dies will i be responsible for that

i am very much tensed bcz of his suicide threats

It's very risky paradigm of your case,

but Iam surprised how you have married him if he had sucidal tendency prior to your marriage?

In love marriage it's common tendency if one gets hurted and other one is not listening to him/her.

by the way,he is your love ----why don't you go and tell him that don't do this as Iam not going anywhere,as i love you too,but Iam tensed that how to convince my parents as they are not listening.

better ask this question to him?

if he will be a real lover of you then definately he will sort out your problem rather thanjust cutting his vain and crying like a hell...

but what made you to go against him,as he would be not of freak mind prior to marriage that's why you married him.

now what's wrong in your marriage instead of unacceptance of your parents , what else?

so,that we could give you the right suggestion to come out from this tension....

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hello,

sympathy with ur tragedy.
fail to understand wht make u change ur no. where one can simply ignore unwanted call. it is not tht ur parent make u to change.
besides, u mention tht he still visit ur hme mny times & u keep ur door locked.gud. bt hw do u knw ?? do u want to say tht whenever he come, he informs u.

no one can give u guidance hw to stop anyone, who stays away, from cutting own vein.
so whts ur intention to convey this fact in the forum tht inspite of all this he is still made after u to tht extent. ok. fine.

assume tht u must knw his madness love & affection towards u and may b  this quality u appreciate most.