Why relief is granted in CRPC 125 and DV act because you start accusing the wife and finding fault.
NO LAW SAYS MARRIAGE SHOULD BE BROKEN. NO COURT WILL ORDER ANY RELIEF AGAINST YOU IF YOU CAN PROVE THAT YOU ARE A LOVING DUTIFUL HUSBAND.
You are paying maintenance and for non payment you have gone in jail for one month.Still after going to jail your liability is not waived. Even if you get DIVORCE your this liability will not go. It will be like cancer life long.
Now change the role. Bring few CD s of your favorite actor and see his defferent films and watch how effortlessly he changes roles and act as if in real life.
Just like actors start behaving like a duty bound faithfull husband. Apply in the court THAT there may be some misunderstaning othwerwise you love your wife like nothing else in life. You will keep her in the manner she likes. Whatever complaints if there will be sorted out. ON YOUR PART YOU HAVE NO COMPLAINT AT ALL AGAINST HER.
Mood of court will change, the court will order reunion, if she does not obey than no order can be passed against you.
If she comes be most political. Appoint a house manager. Bring a lady from rural area , she will serve you and will remain like a furniture in the house. Give her all the powers of money and decisons relating to your home. Wife may complain initially but here is your test. Be political . Go on hammering the idea that it is for her good , that it is for the deciplene in the house that it is for the better future for her and the children.
If you do not loose temper , do not abuse and if you can keep calm your wife will have to remain like a servant in the house . If she looses temper abuses breaks utencils reord the instances accurately. To day you have no evidence, ,by this method you will collect evidence which can not be contradicted in any court.
I AM A SENIOR ADVOCATE AND IS HERE WITH ASSUMED TITLE IN ORDER TO PROTECT MY CLIENTS SINCE THEY DO NOT WANT MY IDENTITY TO BE KNOWN TO THEIR OPPONENTS AND I HAVE DONE IT IN MANY CASES WITH HUNDRED PERECENT RESULTS.
This method will work for all others who are in similar boat. By fighting you can not win by pretending to be mild , elastic you will be the boss. Keep your master plan to your self only. But your words and actions must be purely sugar coated. Teachers, masters, trainers TAME the most danger ful animals by these tactics sucessfully all over world since time imemorial .