One person approached to saint Kabir, and said that in my home nothing is going right, everyone quarrels with everyone. Saint Kabir waited for a while, and then asked her wife to ignite and bring the lantern. It was broad day light. His wife brought that. Then after some time, Saint Kabir asked her wife to bring some sweets, but she brought some snacks for them. The person thought that it seems a house of mads, Saint Kabir asked lantern in broad day light, and wife given snacks in place of sweets. Saint Kabir asked the person, did u get the answer or anything more u have to ask. But the person asked the explanation of those events, then Saint Kabir replied that the relationships used to based on mutual trust, when I asked the lantern in broad day light, and wife gave me without asking any question, else she would have asked “why do u need lantern in broad day light, have u gone mad” rather she would have thought that I may be in need for some other purpose. Also, I did not say anything to her when she brought snacks instead of sweets, I thought that this is the only thing would be available at home.
So, mutual trust is a must to run a family or house. If husband commits mistake then wife should handle it wisely, vice versa.
“To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong admit it; Whenever you're right shut up.” Ogden Nash
