My father in law wants every single panny in his hand. According to him he is elder so he must have our salaries. He himself earns. He just want all the finacial control in his hand. I refused to give my salary. After that he behaved in a very rude way. He did not eat at home. He orderd his food from hotel. He said i disrespact him. After that i apolosied him. I said i am realy sorry if i hurt you. But tell me my fault, which words hurt you. He said leave that topic, you apoligised, i am ok. But from now every money form any source will be in my hand. You can ask for maoney when you need. I was shocked. It was all about money not about disrespact. I dont understand what should i do. It is so depressing. please suggest me a peacful way to deal this situation. Because if i would directly refuse he will easily blame me for disrepcting him again. I dont want to give my salary.