I have lot of trouble with my wife. She is a autharaterian and likes to control every thing, Every human beheviour has to be like hers, like table maners, etc. I am suffocating. And as her usual punishment, she goes into a touch me not mode. She has deprived me love and s*x earlier also for a year and now she has started again.
I am now married for 20 years and have a 11 year son. He is always close to me.
That is why she doesnot want a divorce as she feels son will choose me to her.
He also dislikes her autharaterian behevior.
In life she is caring, but we now do not talk at all.
What choices do I have?
a) In case she doesnot want a divorce : can I have the right to
polygamy with mutual concent? Or have s*x with prostitutes at home
once in a while if she doesnot mind?
b) what is the possibility of divorce just based on no s*x condition?