Respected Lawyers,
I need your's advise regarding the problem which i am facing after marriage.My marriage fixed in 2010 and date has been decided. once my marrage has been fixed i came back to my working place and continued my job.After marriage completed in the next day of my marriage i was having confession with my wife and she told that she was raped in train but when i asked strictly that really this thing happen with you then she told she was raped by her JIJU continously 1 month then I feel very bad and tell to my parents she execused with my parents and told that it will never happen again and she will never contact with that person in whole life. after that so many times fight has been happen with me and my wife. then i left her at my home town and come back to my working place.
In 2011 she came to Bangalore and we started living together.i was not aware that her mother who always updating that person status along with other relative members on phone call. again one day i checked her yahoomail and got 1 mail send by that person in her mail box.then i asked with my wife why again this mail came from that person in ur mail id.Mail was how to start your new life.....but if she accepted that no further communication will happen with that person then why it is so? She told i don't know, but i find that mail has been alredy chkecked by my wife and she didn't told me about that.Then i told her if you want to communucate with you mother then always call in front of me. but she didn't.
we got one baby boy in 2011 itself. Again in 2014 major fight happen with me and my wife in which she beten me also and when i slaped her then she called to nearest police station.reason was same... i was saying that if that person raped you then why you don't intimate your mother and your sister's.
.she told that i don't want that my sister life is in disposed state due to this.
she told that she was not having any phone with her, so that she can inform to her parents.her phone has been kept by her JIJU. it happen upto 20 -30 days contineously in absence of her Sister. as sister was in her parents house and both was alone.
After monitoring her behiveour i found she was not taking care about me properlythen i did detailed verification of email and found that after coming from there she was having to many conversation with that person and also on phone call as she told me that it was After Rape(Before marrige)
I asked with her but she always saying that there is no fault of her in this Physical relationship which gone upto 20-30 days.
Again i found before some days back she is visiting face book and on her profile her sister taged her JIJU pics. I asked but she denied Now again fight happen between me and her and she beten me also and pack her luggage in last saturday and left house along with my son and not told to me that where she is going.she left house and told that she don't have money and moved around 2PM afternoon.
i informed to my parents regarding this but she was not picking call.She catch bus from BLR to Mumbai and reched there. My mother tried her phone and after picking call she told that she pickd bus around 8PM from bangalore and reched to Chennai at 1 PM next day to their relative to whom we are not knowing and she told she will back asap to my home town and she is looking for train reservation. i found that she was telling lie.becuse buses will take max 7 HR to reach chennai.then my brother Called her and asked that next day Train is there if u want we can do reservation..but she denied and told that she want some time to think.then my father talk to her Father and he was saying that she is good and she is in chennai and they are in visit to mumbai and they will go and take her along with him.from Monday morning onwards her phone is switched off and not reachable as her parents are in support with him and they are with her JIJU in Mumbai and she is also along with him.
I again Called his father, he is saying it will take another 10 days they will reach chennai. they are doing drama with my father by telling lie and talking to me roughly that she will never revert back to me and what she will do they are with him if she want Divorsce then they are along with her. as she has taken 20K without informing to me and 3 lack FD and NSC Paper where she is Nominee.
I am very much confused that what the premilinary action i have to take against her because we don't know actully where she is but her parents better know that she is with him and making drama that she is in chennai. She reached again to that person who did rape with her cz he is also with her parents in Visiting Mumbai.
Please Advice me in this case what i have to do..... i am very much tense and confused that if something wrong happen with her then i will be in trouble.....Pls ...Pls Advise.
Thanks in Advance !
Yours Faithfully
Raj
