Hi All ( group of eminent lawyers)
I need the advice for my brother who married with girl on 28th November 2013 at Jaipur . Below are the facts of the case :-
1. Marriage of Brother (Rohit) and girl held on 28th November 2013 , at Jaipur.
2. Out of 1.25 years of marriage as on date , she lived with Rohit nearly about 5 or 5.5 months but that not continuously , only in friction . Since 19th September 2014 she is living with her parents and moved away from here on pretext of ill health .
3. During her stay in Faridabad, she often complain about her ill health and not having satisfied with physical relations with brother. Brother (Rohit bhargava) was doing a job in MNC at night shift (4.00 p.m to 1 a.m) due to this was having time for relationship only on weekends. But ,brother also observed that she also took the contraceptive pills to avoid pregnancy , which sound to be quite conflicting and confusing .
4. Brother visited the eminent s*xologist in Delhi - NCR ( Dr. B.K. Roy and Dr. Anup Gulati - Metro Hospital) and had undergone some medical test , which comes out to OK. Doctors said he is physically OK and identified problem is PME probably due to night shift and physiological reasons and not able to spend quality time with wife.
5. Doctors advice for some changes in life style and focus on active cooperation from wife and on SEX counseling of wife to educate some s*xual facts and awareness. He also emphasize on spend quality time with wife continuously for mental and emotional well being .
6. Wife falls ill and visited doctors . Doctors advise her to be in completely relaxed state of mind and be patient and calm , as in doctors eye she was Physically OK and observed her to be quite anxious , impatient .
7. In-spite of full cooperation from brother on health ground and against the family and husband wishes , she suddenly moved to Jaipur on 19th September 2014 and since then with family on pretext of some puja for three months .
8. Communication completely stop between brother and his wife from 1st November 2014 , whenever brother tried to connect with wife and family members , they disconnected the call.
9. Her father visited our family on 27th Dec 2014 to discuss the issue and said brother is "incompetent" which we strongly refutes and said that they need to spend quality time with each other for six months . Her father agree with facts and reports . Further, he focus on fact that brother should change job from night shift to day shift and request him to visit the house in Feb 2015 for which brother agrees. On the assurance of father brother resign from job in January 2015 keeping his family life in priority.
10. On 11th Feb 2014 we received call from her father that they had already made up their mind and provided sufficient time for relationship building on a/c of marriage and now wanted to break-off the marriage and wanted to meet for next course of action i.e. settlement . We tried to convince them for reconciliation of issue and open for all sorts of solution to save marriage, but family was adamant and eager to break off the marriage.
11. Finally , on 28th Feb 2015, Rohit and his two elders brothers from family visited Jaipur at third place to discuss the issue and focus on sorting out the issues at any cost to save the marriage, but girl family members came with closed mind and adamant to break-off the marriage as girl is not ready to come back . They wanted the divorce on mutual settlement and for mutual settlement , demanded from us “reimbursement of marriage expenses, Stri dhan and compensation” to break the marriage mutually.
Now, We are in state of fear that, if we do not agree to their demands, we might be trapped in false allegations against the whole family for extortion of money. Hence, request for written advise from your side to save us from this harassment and for possible course of action . So far talks are going on and no formal case is registered against us but we do not agree to their "demands" , false case may be done against us.
Please advice.
