Hi All,
I shall describe in breif.
- myself employed and live in join family with dad,mum,sis-in-law and brother.
- myself got arranged marriage, with government employee daughter , but mum running the house hold things with her daughter.
- initial impression was like homely girl and all, just was interested in girl nothing else.
- put 50% of marriage expenses
- sridhan they gave was simple as one can imagine, but on 3rd day onwards grils parents started telling and chatting that we have taken dowry is not good and all. I was surprised to know and was hurted deeply for and was feeling sorry for there mindset. However shipped each and everything back to there grils house and they took it, And parents stop communicating with us.
- But our family looked after and took care of her like own daughter , showed her so much respect of taking care of family and giving her incharge… and letting her do whatever she wishes to do of her interest.
- after some 10 days, the girl started saying I do not want to stay with me, but this started happening very frequently she would simply disappear. My mother cam to know about her doings. She could not take it and was admitted in hospital.
Later so called wife and there parents threatened me to give my salary to her and to do as she asks for.
- After that, asked my so called wife to please call your parents we want to talk to them.(for they were not responding, even went in person just to get threatened by them). When we asked it, so called wife just ran into bedroom and locked in middle of late evening. everyone scared, so broke down the door only to see she cut her hand with knife. All shocked and got her treated immediately.
- After that there parents come abusing everyone to our family and take her with them. I tried to contact my so called wife but only get abuse and no respect.
- now they file a case of 498a on entire family accusing of huge money was given to me as dowry , we had asked and tourtured fro money so that my brother would build house. And my family have physically tourtured and tried to kill her.
All these happened within 20 days of marriage, we are not able to believe this non-sense.
n Now I have consulted an advocate, and been doing lot of reading on 498a issues.
n Advocate says they are behind my money and they would file maintiance too where in I have pay money to them.
So this my major concern is not paying money too.. but I heard that 498a is women centric and with those wounds of so called my wife, how to protect my family ?
In fact she has managed to get a medical certificate for this.
I am worried , how to prove this Major accussing which is false to be false.
What are the chances that honorbale judge would buy this false statement and case.
how should i solve this problem , i am not finding a way. request to please provide insight for fighting for justice of my family.
thanks
