Hi need advice, on the below
suggest whether Talking/smsing late night to some mail guy can be considered as treachery (Dhoka ) and Can i file divorce on that basis .
I am presenting you all with the detail as below which I have collected from the call records
wherein I have found that my wife is in touch with some guy.
Data collected from March as follows
Mar - 23 msgs sent as late as 11.45 in the night
April - 7 msgs - msgs sent late as 11.50 in the night (on her b'day in april she sent msgs to the suspicious guy at 11.50 night, later then sent to me at 11.40pm
May - 33 mesgs - on various days - timings of last messges on 21 st may was 11.59 night on 22nd may - 8 messages (last mesgs 0:51:52 sec ) which is normaly we can say night of 21st may - raat ke 12 bajke 51
min: 52 secs for above months (Mar- may) she was at her home town
Pls concentrate on timings of msgs sent late night
June/july - no communication - as the so called wife came to livewith me from her home town. Might be she didn't want to take risk to get caught. or got tright time to do communications
August - In august 9 calls and 4 messages again to suspicious guy
out of 9 calls all we of duration of more than 40 mins :)
All the 4 msgs were sent during day time between 11 -
5 when she is at her office.
again see the timing of msgs when she is at her home town she sends msgs late night as I am not there, but when is with me she sends during day time when she is at ofice .
I can only collect the outgoing calls details but not possible for me to collect incoming call details as post paid bill have only out going details listed..
I somehow have found out the name of the suspicious guy. and she doesnt know this.
Why I am suspicious about her having an affair.
1) I have never heard about this suspicious guy name from her?
2) suspicious guy is not in her office so how come month after month u are communicating with this guy ? so late at night? also see the duration of calls above ?
3) She is always fighting with me for silly reasons/disagreeing to almost all the thoughts of mine.
4) Once we already had a family meeting to sort the differences, but for few months she behaves ok and then again starts argument for silly reasons
5) Once i propose her mutual divorce, she said she is ready, butdemanding huge amnt - 18 lakhs even though she is working), I am from a middle class family not possible to pay that much huge sum
6) She says u file the divorce case as she doesnt want to take blame
on her (i feel that) and show her self sati-savitri in front of all
family members
I think she is very cunning person want to enjoy life of her own have
husband for namesake, use him like puppet
Need expert suggestion, On basis of above communication (Sms's and
calls) can they be considered as evidences for treachery (dhoka) in a
divorce case if i file it a divorce?
