Bineesh (BA) 06 March 2013

Need urgent help please

I am a Hindu boy very soft, helping nature and sensitive, (34) married (registered on 1st Oct 2009 under special marriage act) to a Muslim 3 years back due to this we never had support from my in laws as they were against our marriage and also not financially strong, but still I used to help them financially, we had only support from my parents and relatives my parents and also they have gifted her all type of gold ornaments, I have taken insurance in her name and son name, and I have taken medical insurance in her name and son name, and also I was saving RD in my sons name for the future education. We have a baby boy of 2 years, as the baby was born in 7 ½ month at that time both wife and son were hospitalized for 3 weeks, though her parents knew they dint even visited or helped, as there were no one to take care she was staying in my house my mom, dad, brothers and relatives were taking care of my wife and son and I used to be there on every weekends, on Jan 6th 2013 she simply started an issue and fought with me and went back to her home along with our baby by giving a statement to the police station "that she don’t want to live with me", (She removed all her jewels and gave it to me but she carried all her dress and my sons dress to her home), and when I called her she is asking me to convert to Muslim, so that she will come back. i can’t live without my wife and son, is there any way that I could get my wife and son back. I am ready to take a separate house so that she can follow her religion and I will follow mine, but still she is telling that her parents will not send her with me unless I am converted to Muslim. I want both of them in my life I love her so much. Kindly advice what I could do.

Its 45 days now I want to see my son and wife but I don’t know the address where is she staying neither she is not calling me on phone also. Kindly help me.

She knows that I love her so much and I can’t live without her and I would do anything for her. I think she is taking advantage of this; yes I am ready to do anything for her except covert to Muslim.

1) Can she and her family convert my son to muslim without my knowledge??

2) She and her parents are not allowing to meet my son also.

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shriks........... (healyhcare) 06 March 2013

FIR in police station regarding missing complaint.......have you filed??????????
why not ......if no

Advocate Sastry (Advocate) 06 March 2013

Dear Bineesh,

I remember of having seen your message on three/four earlier occassions earlier... I agree with the opinion of Shriks to lodge FIR..

M Chaturvedi (Business) 06 March 2013

Dear Bineesh:

Shriks has rightly written in his / her reply. Have to filed FIR in Police Station? Its about your wife & son. And what kind of love is this? She is asking you to convert your religion - Her parents has brain washed her or may be black mailed her.

Also, inform Police about the whole scene - Importantly, about the ornaments she has left at your place because if she sticks to her demands of converting your religion & you don't do that she might start getting more & more agressive as time passes by. And then the worst will start for you - DV & 498A & Etc... Etc... here I am not frieghtening you but since 45 days she & your son are at her parents' place so there must too much of thinking & may be planning going on at their side. So, please be alert, start safe siding yourself as well as your family. Inform your Police Station, Concerned Area ACP & DCP & CC to Commisioner of Police about the whole situation. Even write in your statement that you really do love her & wants her & your son back. Show your good intentions.