Hello experts,
This is case of my real sister who got married in Feb2005 at age of 19. Let you know first that we belong to a lower-middle class while other family belongs to upper middle class. First year of marriage gone very well, but after that they started to complain about my sister misbehavior on phone and also voice recorded those calls. Actually their compaints were all about very little issuse like she did not cook food on time. she was fifteen minutes late. They also started harrsing my sister on these issues and on our family economic status. In result of that she got into a major depression in Feb2007. We rushed her to the hospital along with her spouse. Doctor asked for care for atleast 6 months. Their family asked us to take my sister to our native place and comeback once she got ok. After that her spouse did not call her once even doctor has advised him. Then we threatened him that we will take police action as our main concerned was my sister mental condition. He came and asked us for family meeting. Like all other lower-middle class families we dont want to go for divorce easily, we accepted that all mistakes are because of sister and we apololized for that.
After that incident , their life went smooth until Oct11. In mean time my sister got a baby boy also, now he is 4and half year old. Her spouse got into relationship with teanants wife and stopped talking to my sister. My sister and me requested his parenets to look into the issue. They assured us that we will settle everything within 3-4 months.
After that time span, they called us for family meeting and in that meeting they said that your sister is false alleging their son. My sister even told them that she has shown calls made to that lady by her husband but they refused. They asked us to write on paper that all mistakes are of my sister, they have not demanded dowry, they have taken care of her during her illness etc. We refused to write on paper and came back. In sepetember last, they beated my sister. We went their and took our sister with us. After two weeks of that incident, they sent divorce notice to our place but we could not receive it as we have shifted to another place. One of relative told us that they are going for divorce. We approced to their society president also but no use. He is not listening to anybody.
Please let me know experts what should be course of action. i know that i should have complained earlier against them but nobody wants a divorce on girl side. But now they have decided for divorce, please let me the know actions which would help mine sister and his child their right. We are not having any proof against her husband.
