Hi Team,
I married last year both software professional. Both earning well. After marriage she came to stay with my family mom dad and little bro.
After marriage, we learnt that she lied about being career oriented, hates to do homely work, does not want my family to stay with us. Has been in many relationships before marriage which she hid very smartly. She is very shrewd, cunning and manipulating person.
Her father who was contactly ill for years passed away and her mother has spoilt her alot. So she is trying to misbehave in same manner with my family. She is cunning and lies all the time to get her way out of any situation.
We are decent and hard working family but she belongs to village side illiterate family. She was pampered and spoilt alot with her crazy demands and luxury life. She does not mind living in debt to maintain her luxury life.
Threatened me for divroce and that she has many contacts to screw up my family. Also she is very vengeful and vindictive person. So I am genuinely scared.
She has tendency to fight for hours even for pettiest things. And she preferrs packing bags and leaving my house to stay with her mother in every fight. She is very voilent abusive and careless. She had been staying with my family like a PG and didd not care about anyone (not even me). She is extremely egoistic and has major attitude problems so even she is explained things in good words she takes in very bad manner and is not scared of anyone or any concequence. So there is no scope for counseling or mutual understanding at any cost. She hates critisicm. She has tendency of making things ugly if things go against her well. Very strong minded and voilent person. Even her mother is scared of her outbursts and abuses. She is kind off proud that others are scared of her.
Legal issues :
- I have recorded her audio/videos where she was getting abusive and threatening about divorce and blaming my family for everything.
- house car and bike is on my name (loans going on)
- her relatives and mother somewhat knows how she behaves when angry so I got a quick recording where she aggred how her daughter can behave in abusive manner
- she threatened many times that laws are in favour of girls so she can very easily screw up my family members and leave happily. She does this indirectly so that I don't pick her words and make a scene. And I am really scared of this.
- she left my house for last 2 months. And in marriage of 10 months, she stayed with me only for 4 months total.
You have narrated a lengthy story here without seeking opinion to your problem.
What have you decided to do in furtherance so that opinion can be rendered accordingly
