Greetings to all...
My marriage is on 28 th April 2012,When my First Night ,Her parents are not arranged any arrangement of First night.My wife came and slept on bed closing all faces etc..I try to speak ,but no action ..no response..I didn't slept until 4 'o clock in the morning...She is not cooperated and nothing is happened on the first night.I thought it will change...
Opinion: Who told you to celebrate first night as Ghar Jamai?
Jokes apart, coming to the concerned ,your wife is not having her choice s*x,thats the reason she is behaving like that.
But it is not happened in frequent days also.
Opinion; As usual...
I gone to honeymoon trip to ooty for 3 days.That time also no s*x.is happened.
Opinion: Ohhhhhh,s.h.i.t ,total waste of money,it's better go for a movie in a theatre rather than choosing a hefty deal for honeymoon. So sad.
After that I have disclosed this issue to my parents and as well as my wife parents.
Opinion: A gud move ahead.....
After my parents are communicated to their parents after that, some what she is allowed and during that time also she is not fully cooperated and like a wood.
Opinion: So,after indulgence of parents you got some what chance to Dance,but it also went in vein. Again so sad.
she started shooting to me this is the only life ..nothing else like that....
Opinion: It's shooting or shouting?
If shooting is written then you are the hero of your own B grade movie.
If shouting is there then 100% she has created a mental cruelity on you.
she never allowed to kiss during the entire marriage life
We stayed together 3 months ,during the period only 7 times only s*x happened that time also not fully cooperated..she told that she is not interested in s*x.
Opinion: It's not advisable to count how many times you kissed her or how many times you have done intercourse.As Judge will not count these kisses...
But yes overall the mental cruelity will count.
I told her parents , they told her body is weak.try to manage.
Opinion: What to manage,Is she is Doll that you will manage?
An excuse from your beloved in-laws to trap you in their consipiracy.
she gone to her parent house after 3 month of marriage life,After that i visited ,she is not coming back to live.I try to call several time to come back..she is not care that...she is staying more than 12 month away from me.
Opinion: Creating the Road to divorce..
we received the legal notice that she need divorce and settlement amount and she put another case against Maintenance for women harassment act 2005.
Opinion: What I have told you the road been created and here is what you have a legal notice in your hand.,
only motivation for her and her parents is money...This is the short way to earn money,,,I am not interested to give any money to her.Without interest ,she married and she screwed my life.
can i also put case against.. or how to deal...Please advice sir
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Dear querist,
Your marriage is half dead because it has not crossed 2 years of seperation in legal terms. But for her this marriage is over dead she already burried you in maintenance cases and more cases to be filed by her in near future.
So,first I would like to make you clear that your wife has created a ploy to trap you in her emotions.Now once you have been trapped she is dancing on her parents tunes.
Solutions:
1. Re construct your brain and utilize it in straight forward after deleating her back forward love.
2. Collect all her mental cruelities what she has done and still doing.
3. If you want to take some more breaths as an insect like evey insect flies rigorously before there death you may proceed for RCR but no chances are there that she will become gud and cohabit with you. So forget it.
4. You may wait for another 1 year to complete 2 years time bound for ground of desertion where you can seek for divorce if she is not ready for MCD .
5. If you are in hurry and can't tollerate her then file divorce based on mental cruelity and proceed with evidences what you have.
If she is unemployed and have no source of income and even not capable to maintain herself then you are bound to pay her as you can't escape with it.
So,my opinion will be 4 or 5 -----it depend's on you. But before that it higly recommended to have a talk for mutual divorce before proceeding for contested.
Rest it all depend on you what you want from your life.....
